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What is your worst fear that could happen and ruin your relationship/marrage with FH?
Posted by Espo22
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that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd![]()
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
denise i dont know if i am being to personal by saying this and if i am just let me know i dont want to hit anyones sore spot or offend anyone...but i dont get what you mean by not having any fight in you anymore...i mean yes i understand you have to work at relationships at times and for some people it is definitely more than others...but do you mean personally in your life there is something that makes you and fh have to fight to stay together? or do you mean in general like i stated before? cause i see people saying they understand what oyu mean and i don't so i was just curious...
but again you dont have to answer this if it is too personal or for any reason you choose....just curious and i am sure you will be able to fight for what you love!!!![]()
its ok ive said it on here before and FH tells everybody so its not a secret but he is manic depressive. If you know anybody who is then its alot easier to understand what i am saying. But they are at battle with themselves, their mind can go far off and you need to pull them back sometimes bc they can get into a manic stage and just want to be destructive, or depressed and you have to be there for them and help them through it. There are times they want to push away every single person in their life and close themselves off from everyone.
yes everyone has to fight sorry if people got confused. I just meant that this is not a situation some would like to be in and it would be hard to handle, you would have to hear things you dont want to hear, to be their strength and your own and go through the ups and downs
also, cheating! That's a deal breaker, Fh knows it, that's the only way i'll divorce!!!
oh no dont feel bad catie lol its perfectly fine, fh tells anybody he meets so its not a big deal. I mean hey maybe somebody else is in a similar situation and seeing someone else dealing with it might help them
Cheating....just glad i don't have to worry about that.
Posted by Espo22
oh no dont feel bad catie lol its perfectly fine, fh tells anybody he meets so its not a big deal. I mean hey maybe somebody else is in a similar situation and seeing someone else dealing with it might help them
I would say cheating. My ex cheated and i had no idea, it was the most horrible thing to get over. I have such trust issues because of him. But I trust FH.
