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Reason to smile....

Original post by futuremrsmultari

Well, all of you know that my father passed away very suddenly on the 25th. I cannot imagine my wedding right now but I know that he would want me to be happy so I must continue planning.

Well, I got numerous cards and had many conversations with my dad's friends. Apparently my dad gushed about my wedding non stop. About 10 of his rough, tough, upstate hunter/fisherman, carpenter friends told me in person or in cards that he even told them about my dress. I would have paid to hear those chats! I guess my dad told them the whole story from me buying a dress, returning it and now debating between two dresses. I remember showing my dad the Jasmine gown and his eyes welled up. He told so many people how much he liked that dress.

So, decision made. I am buying the Jasmine gown. AND I got a call yesterday that the store upstate by my mom's house finally got in the dress sample. SO, on Saturday my mom, my aunt and my little cousin (Jr. MOH) are all going to the store so I can try on the dress again. I'll order it up there or from Burton's or Bridal Elegance but either way...my dress is a reason to smile. It's exactly what my dad wanted me to wear!
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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Posted by beachbum05

I hope this doesn't upset you, but I found this beautiful poem, and I thought it was really touching. You dad will most certainly be with you on your wedding day...and you will have a beautiful beautiful wedding. Sending you tons of support to you and your family.

Never Alone

I feel you in the morning
When at first I awake
Your thought is with me
With each decision I make

You'd been around forever
Since the first breath I took
Now I have to go on alone
But for love, I need not look

Cause by what you bestowed
In our short time together
Will last in my heart
Forever and ever

Although you've left
And now walk above
I'm never alone
I'm wrapped in your love

Enjoy now your long waited reward
Feel peace that your love continues on
What was taught to me, will be taught to mine
Cause you live on in me even after you've gone



bonnie that is beautiful.
beachbum05 Posted:

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Posted by misskitty08




bonnie that is beautiful.



I love it
femmes Posted:

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Posted by misskitty08


Posted by beachbum05

I hope this doesn't upset you, but I found this beautiful poem, and I thought it was really touching. You dad will most certainly be with you on your wedding day...and you will have a beautiful beautiful wedding. Sending you tons of support to you and your family.

Never Alone

I feel you in the morning
When at first I awake
Your thought is with me
With each decision I make

You'd been around forever
Since the first breath I took
Now I have to go on alone
But for love, I need not look

Cause by what you bestowed
In our short time together
Will last in my heart
Forever and ever

Although you've left
And now walk above
I'm never alone
I'm wrapped in your love

Enjoy now your long waited reward
Feel peace that your love continues on
What was taught to me, will be taught to mine
Cause you live on in me even after you've gone



bonnie that is beautiful.



that is really beautiful..your father will be looking down on you and will be very proud!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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aw thats very sweet of you...and it sounds like the dress now has sentimental value!

futuremrsmultari Posted:

Re: Reason to smile....


Posted by beachbum05

I hope this doesn't upset you, but I found this beautiful poem, and I thought it was really touching. You dad will most certainly be with you on your wedding day...and you will have a beautiful beautiful wedding. Sending you tons of support to you and your family.

Never Alone

I feel you in the morning
When at first I awake
Your thought is with me
With each decision I make

You'd been around forever
Since the first breath I took
Now I have to go on alone
But for love, I need not look

Cause by what you bestowed
In our short time together
Will last in my heart
Forever and ever

Although you've left
And now walk above
I'm never alone
I'm wrapped in your love

Enjoy now your long waited reward
Feel peace that your love continues on
What was taught to me, will be taught to mine
Cause you live on in me even after you've gone



Thank you for this. I had planned to donate to the American Diabetes Association in celebration of my father and my FH's father in lieu of favors. It will now be in memory of my father. I might use this on the table tents stating that a donation was made. Thank you! It's beautiful!

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