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RSVPing 'No'

PoppedInASnap Posted:

Re: RSVPing 'No'


Posted by squeekietoy

We had a few No's with checks included. This was only from my husband's side of the family though.

I don't think there is anything in today's etiquette that states that you have to give a gift if you're not attending.

Be prepared that there are people that will come to your wedding and not give you a gift at all. Maybe not even a card. My sisters did this to me. So bizarre.




wait... your sisters?!?!?!!
squeekietoy Posted:

Re: RSVPing 'No'


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by squeekietoy

We had a few No's with checks included. This was only from my husband's side of the family though.

I don't think there is anything in today's etiquette that states that you have to give a gift if you're not attending.

Be prepared that there are people that will come to your wedding and not give you a gift at all. Maybe not even a card. My sisters did this to me. So bizarre.




wait... your sisters?!?!?!!



Yep. My sisters. I confronted one of them. The other I didn't even bother bc she's getting married March 29 and I plan on doing the same thing to her.
Brat23 Posted:

Re: RSVPing 'No'

The right and polite thing to do is send a small gift. I do when I say no.

PoppedInASnap Posted:

Re: RSVPing 'No'


Posted by squeekietoy


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by squeekietoy

We had a few No's with checks included. This was only from my husband's side of the family though.

I don't think there is anything in today's etiquette that states that you have to give a gift if you're not attending.

Be prepared that there are people that will come to your wedding and not give you a gift at all. Maybe not even a card. My sisters did this to me. So bizarre.




wait... your sisters?!?!?!!



Yep. My sisters. I confronted one of them. The other I didn't even bother bc she's getting married March 29 and I plan on doing the same thing to her.



my sister and her boyfriend did that to me at my engagement party, but that was just the engagement party! Wow thats so insane. SO so sorry about that :(
squeekietoy Posted:

Re: RSVPing 'No'


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by squeekietoy


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by squeekietoy

We had a few No's with checks included. This was only from my husband's side of the family though.

I don't think there is anything in today's etiquette that states that you have to give a gift if you're not attending.

Be prepared that there are people that will come to your wedding and not give you a gift at all. Maybe not even a card. My sisters did this to me. So bizarre.




wait... your sisters?!?!?!!



Yep. My sisters. I confronted one of them. The other I didn't even bother bc she's getting married March 29 and I plan on doing the same thing to her.



my sister and her boyfriend did that to me at my engagement party, but that was just the engagement party! Wow thats so insane. SO so sorry about that :(



Thanks. I'm pretty much over it now. I think they thought that since they were in the wedding party that they didn't have to give me a gift.

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