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klk072285 Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:17 AM+

klk072285 MEMBER SINCE: 8/12 TOTAL POSTS : 549 WEDDING DATE: May 03, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:17 AM

RSVPs

So there is exactly 1 week left to get all my RSVPs and I am still waiting for responses from 71 people!

I know there are some who are definitely coming but just haven't sent it yet which is even more annoying to me.

I've already hit my minimum and sort of hope all the others are nos lol

So how did everyone track down the roque guests? Hand it off to the parents? Reach out on FB? Call? Text?

Did you make them mail the response or getting a verbal was good enough?

KroertGS Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:24 AM+

KroertGS MEMBER SINCE: 9/11 TOTAL POSTS : 1175 WEDDING DATE: Apr 27, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:24 AM

RSVPs

ME TOO!!! My rsvp date is March 30, and I am still waiting for 70 responses!!!!!! GRRRRR

lauren1802 Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:32 AM+

lauren1802 MEMBER SINCE: 10/11 TOTAL POSTS : 5335 WEDDING DATE: Sep 20, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 11:32 AM

RSVPs

Im planning on calling, i think it will be harder for people to not respond to that.

RussianBride Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:07 PM+

RussianBride MEMBER SINCE: 11/11 TOTAL POSTS : 1130 WEDDING DATE: Jul 07, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:07 PM

Re: RSVPs

I'm making my RSVP date 6.5 weeks before wedding to give me time incase ppl dont respond on time - which is a proven fact obviously! LOL

I would cal them - if they don't asnswer, email. Have your family or BP help!

TJD Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:33 PM+

TJD MEMBER SINCE: 7/11 TOTAL POSTS : 548 WEDDING DATE: Jul 28, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:33 PM

RSVPs

i would wait a day or two after the cut off date then make phone calls stat!!!!

TJD Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:34 PM+

TJD MEMBER SINCE: 7/11 TOTAL POSTS : 548 WEDDING DATE: Jul 28, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 12:34 PM

RSVPs

you have the hardest part coming up after that. the seating chart...Im so not looking forward to that at all.

klk072285 Posted: Mar 27, 2013 01:14 PM+

klk072285 MEMBER SINCE: 8/12 TOTAL POSTS : 549 WEDDING DATE: May 03, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 01:14 PM

Re: RSVPs

Posted by TJD

you have the hardest part coming up after that. the seating chart...Im so not looking forward to that at all.

ugh I know!! I'm already getting requests from people about who they want to sit with...and of course, who they don't want to sit with...fml

katnwill Posted: Mar 27, 2013 02:03 PM+

katnwill MEMBER SINCE: 10/11 TOTAL POSTS : 2405 WEDDING DATE: May 26, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 02:03 PM

RSVPs

I know the feeling by RSVP date is April 1st. I purposely chose an early RSVP date because I knew I would have to chase some people down and I didn't want to have to stress over that closer to my wedding date. I plan on calling them/ texting people. My mother has been contacting her people who have not sent back the RSVP. It's is so annoying. I haven't reached my minimum yet but I'm hoping I just make it to my minimum and everyone else is a NO! Every time I receive a RSVP in the mail I am hoping someone will say no but everyone says YES!
I also wanted to get them early so I could start working on the seating arrangements (which I am dreading)!

MarryTheNight24 Posted: Mar 27, 2013 03:11 PM+

MarryTheNight24 MEMBER SINCE: 12/11 TOTAL POSTS : 1622 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 03:11 PM

RSVPs

This makes me so nervous! I'm a procrastinator myself, but I promised myself when I get my friends invites for their weddings this summer I'm sending the RSVP back immediately. I'm hoping karma will be good to me!

Courtz Posted: Mar 27, 2013 04:08 PM+

Courtz MEMBER SINCE: 6/11 TOTAL POSTS : 2001 WEDDING DATE: Apr 20, 2013

Posted: Mar 27, 2013 04:08 PM

Re: RSVPs

I had just under 30 or so missing before my due date and now a week after it I'm still missing 9.

I know most for the answers and tracked people down via Text or FB. I still requested that then send the card back.