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Seems a little odd...
k1907
Posted: Apr 22, 2019 10:47 PM+
Posted: Apr 22, 2019 10:47 PM
Seems a little odd...
At my final walkthrough, my venue recommended we give a 15-20% gratuity of our total bill in cash a few days PRIOR to our wedding date so they can "distribute it to the wait staff and for us not to worry about envelopes the day of."Here are my concerns:
- 15% gratuity will be close to $4,000
- I have a wedding planner handling pretty much everything
- There are 12 waiters working that day, maybe a couple bartenders, one bridal attendant and a maitre d.
Can someone please tell me, is this a normal request? I understand tipping is standard but at what cost? And why ahead of time?
How are all you brides handling the tipping process? This seems a bit excessive...
gb626
Posted: Apr 23, 2019 12:07 PM+
Posted: Apr 23, 2019 12:07 PM
RE:Seems a little odd...
Our venue recommended $3-$5 per guest as a tip for the maitre d, which he would then split amongst the wait/bar staff, and an addition $100-$150 for the bridal attendant. That was around 5% of our venue bill, and we thought that was reasonable (our maitre d and bridal attendant were AMAZING on the day of...) However, we gave all of our tips out the day of, to the individuals, with sincere thanks. For what it's worth, I wouldn't have been comfortable handing in an envelope of cash to the venue before the event. But maybe that's just me....Welcome New Vendors
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