sensitive topic alert------how will u and fh punish your children?
Original post by latinaj
spanking yay or nay?
i grew up being scared for my life..lmao not really..but a little..
it worked for me..i stood out of trouble.. for most of my life
i know fh was brought up under the spanking system too.
not sure what we will do w/our kids though?
AngnShaun
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Posted by mrsdraskin2009
I don't think its fair to necessarily figure out punishment before children are actually involved; I think a lot of the punishment and discipline depends on the child and the circumstances.
Do I condone physical violence as a means of punishment or discipline? No way. However, if my child attempts to touch a hot stove, I would slap their hands away and say NO sternly.
Parenting is complex as it is and a lot of it has to do with the parents being fair, balanced and judicial in their methods for discipline.
I think the point of the post was just to see if people were for or against it currently...not carve out in stone how you were going to handle punishment for the next 20 years.
I can say I am against it, but if my 10 yr old son was to call me a c***, I would smack him in the face without a thought.
Its difficult to be for or against it now if you dont have kids...
mrsdraskin2009
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Posted by kater08
Posted by mrsdraskin2009
I don't think its fair to necessarily figure out punishment before children are actually involved; I think a lot of the punishment and discipline depends on the child and the circumstances.
Do I condone physical violence as a means of punishment or discipline? No way. However, if my child attempts to touch a hot stove, I would slap their hands away and say NO sternly.
Parenting is complex as it is and a lot of it has to do with the parents being fair, balanced and judicial in their methods for discipline.
I think the point of the post was just to see if people were for or against it currently...not carve out in stone how you were going to handle punishment for the next 20 years.
I can say I am against it, but if my 10 yr old son was to call me a c***, I would smack him in the face without a thought.
Errrr....put on the brakes there sister!
How can I be FOR or AGAINST something when I don't have a kid to discipline?
Obviously, I think the majority of people are AGAINST physical violence (belts, spoons, swatches, kicking, hitting, punching) and that goes without saying...but who am I to say I will never ever swat my child on the butt if he runs into the street?
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Posted by JAAMS
no physical punishment no cursing no verbal abuse no screaming & carrying on
I'm all about the timeouts & taking away of priveleges, and I will raise my voice & yell if they aren't listening, but i won't yell and carry on and on and on
totally agree!
allegracristina
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I like this thread
I had a fat, fresh mouth as a child. I'm an only child, my parents are older. I definitely got spanked on my butt a few times as a young kid for being bad. My parents were strict with me! I used to get the hot oil on my tongue!!! It's this crazy Asian fire oil basically for cooking. It's orange and like, pure chili oil. When I was reeeealllly bad with my fresh assss mouth they would put a drop of the hot oil on my tongue!!!!!!!!! IT WAS FUCKKING TORTURE!!!!!! AHHHH!! SO HOT!!! And because it was oil you couldn't just drink water and make it go away, water would make it worse!! They only had to use that about 2 times with me
My mom would chase after me and could never catch me!! She'd be like 'Veni que te voy a dar un palaso!!!!!!!!!' and I would be like , yeah right I'm coming over there....NOT!!! And run all over the house from her.
I don't know what I'll do with my kids. I'm waiting a few years to figure all that out
kimmaymb20
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If they are bad and arent responding to other dispiline methods i think i have a right to smack on the butt. sometimes I with FSIL would stop letting FN run right over her when she is disciplining him and just smack is little butt he might stop being a spolied brat.
Re: sensitive topic alert------how will u and fh punish your children?
Posted by grkbarbie
dude i used to get BEAT . sometimes INFRONT OF MY FRIENDS!!!!!!
i remember once i was like 14. i was 20 min late to come home from school cuz it was VDAY and i went to the bodega to get my mom flowers...
dad ran out the driveway and slapped me to the point where he broke my glasses..
saw he broke my glasses and beat me again cuz he was mad that he hit me and broke my glasses!!!! lmaooo it was a lose/lose SHYTuation for me. and it was done infront of my best friend . i hatedddddd him for it.. but i turned out to be a human being lolllllllllll
im not going to BEAT my kids but im def going to 'beat ' them lolol
i refuse to let my kid turn out to be a lil spoiled bastid
same crap happened in my household - it really affected me in a bad way so there will be no spanking here. Not to say that a small spanking is abuse but what I went through was very scary so I'm not a fan of spanking. Severe punishment works I think if you stick to it...
