i want to strangle him! he says he is 50% sure he doesnt want kids and wont change his mind. I asked him if 50% is enough to end our relationship and he didnt answer. i want to knock his asssss out right now
it would be a deal breaker for me, i wouldnt put my feelings aside and think that iw ould be able to 'change' his mind, i dont think thats fair to you or to him - i think that a good clearing of the air is what your owed - he knew your feelings when you two were dating, and prior to getting engaged, im sure your fantastic with his son (i remember reading about him putting stuff in the micro.. if i remember correctly and burning it up) and i think every post you have had about him just shows how good you are around kids. I do believe that in his heart of hearts something must have changed his mind and at the least he owes you an explanation as to why he was pro-kids and now anti-kids. Good Luck
i have a 5 year old and she is my world i really don't know what i would do with out her. She can be quite a hand full at times. FH isn't her biological father but he has been her daddy since she was 2 and is the only father she has and will ever know. I was told years ago after i was very sick that i would never have kids...... i concider her a blessing and we both would like another but if it doesn't happen at least we have her.
he might just feel a little too much pressure right now with the wedding and all... plus having a child is not so easy sometimes especially with everything costwise rising. I'm dreading buying her clothes again since she is in yet another growth spurt
