Seriously girls...

As someone who has been an active member of these boards for almost 2 years, WATCH WHAT YOU SAY on here.

Yes, it is a wedding planning board and we are bound to tell private details and ask advice. BUT this is an OPEN and PUBLIC forum....anyone can see/read anything at ANY time.

We've had vindictive coworkers look up girls accounts and tell bosses...some girls have had their vendors cancelled on them b/c of some nutter from outside..

the point is YOU JUST NEVER KNOW...if you really need advice..post under an anonymous name...not only for your privacy, but for the privacy of your FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

And remember, although sometimes it seems like fun and games lalalala wedding planning...these are real people and real lives we are dealing with through the monitor and keyboard...and it all has real and lasting effects on people's lives.

OK down from the soap box....speech over.

Happy Planning.

I totally agree.. I for one know that I have a lurker

RIGHTT you know who you are

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Posted by DMartocello

VERY True

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Yup!

YOu are totally correct, i posted something about this a while ago

it is such a disheartening feeling that people would be so vindictive and plain cruel

i was totally shocked to find that people really do those things!!!

good luck to everyone!!

Well said!!!!!!!!