no...but just last week he tole me that they spoke on the phone. I was like....HUH???? Tt didn't bother me though b/c SHE contacted HIM to let him know that SHE got engaged. And, he was thrilled b/c after dating her for 7 years (YEP...SEVEN YEARS) he broke up with her and he always felt sort of guilty about it.....and he's glad she found someone.
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I know 2 of them. FH and I were freinds b4 we started dating. if u think that it will make ur situation better and make u feel more at ease then go for it.
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do they talk alot?
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don't go out of your way to meet her....the only reason you should is if there are children inolved. Its not worth your time; you have too much other stuff to do right now. Besides, it would prob.make HER uncomfortable...and ew...you'd have to shake her hand. Yech
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If they talk alot and see eachother then i would want to meet this chick myself
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is he the one that wants to introduce you? If not, I wouldn't go out of my way to go meet her.
Just my opinion, but it sounds like if this really bothers you that they talk, you should talk to FH and have a serious convo with him. Good luck!
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does she have a boyfriend or husband maybe you guys can go to dinner or something
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I really dont know what to tell u. My gut instinct as soon as I read the question was 'NOOOOOOOO FCKIN WAAAAAAAY!'
And I still feel that way, BUT if hes still seeing her occasionally- I would want to meet her too. I would NOT feel comfortable with him still seeing her. If I made that known to him, he would cut her off immediately to make me, his FW, feel comfortable and confident. I dont think he would maintain the relationship if he knew I wasnt OK with it, and I certainly dont think he would want me to meet her.. that would stir up a whoooole bunch of sh!t in my wacko mind
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I really dont know what to tell u. My gut instinct as soon as I read the question was 'NOOOOOOOO FCKIN WAAAAAAAY!'
And I still feel that way, BUT if hes still seeing her occasionally- I would want to meet her too. I would NOT feel comfortable with him still seeing her. If I made that known to him, he would cut her off immediately to make me, his FW, feel comfortable and confident. I dont think he would maintain the relationship if he knew I wasnt OK with it, and I certainly dont think he would want me to meet her.. that would stir up a whoooole bunch of sh!t in my wacko mind
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i not sure if she is involoved with any one.
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As crazy as this is....I am actually friends with 2 of them (the third is a real rude ***** & tried to cause problems & break me and my FH - but it didn't work to her advantage)LOL Skank...Anyway -- I mean it depends what type of girl you are..Some girls never want to meet them - and some do.... My FH is still friends with the other 2 as well...I mean- it's not like they even have the slightest chance with him ever again - and now that we are all friends - it makes things happier for me knowing that I have him and all of him...
I hope that helps - but if you are going to be intimadated by her I would suggest not meeting her...if you don't give a hoot-- then meet hr and see what she is about.....Nothing to lose and nothing to gain....Hope that helps girlie
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Maybe you should have a chat w/fh and let him know you would like to meet her