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since this is a wedding website - what is your opinion on same sex marriage?

Original post by yabbobay

our president is against it...and he says that you are too...what is your opinion?

A strong America must also value the institution of marriage. I believe we should respect individuals as we take a principled stand for one of the most fundamental, enduring institutions of our civilization. Congress has already taken a stand on this issue by passing the Defense of Marriage Act, signed in 1996 by President Clinton. That statute protects marriage under Federal law as the union of a man and a woman, and declares that one state may not redefine marriage for other states. Activist judges, however, have begun redefining marriage by court order, without regard for the will of the people and their elected representatives. On an issue of such great consequence, the people's voice must be heard. If judges insist on forcing their arbitrary will upon the people, the only alternative left to the people would be the constitutional process. Our nation must defend the sanctity of marriage.

The outcome of this debate is important -- and so is the way we conduct it. The same moral tradition that defines marriage also teaches that each individual has dignity and value in God's sight.
shelzyp Posted:

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Erica - good luck on your midterm!!!

HappyEverAfter Posted:

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As women, we should be especially sensitive to how rights in America can and have been changed. Years ago, women were property, with the womans family having to pay a dowery to the mans family before they got married. In other countries, women are still burned or stoned alive for disagreeing with the men in their lives or their governments. As we have evolved as a society, so have our rights to be seen as independent of our husbands. This came about through years of women campaigning for change. As intellegent young women, we can change the system and the laws through educating ourselves and voting. Thats how you make change happen. Not by sitting back and saying that liberals will destroy the laws or saying you cannot change the laws.

Martin Luther King said that you have to practice non-violence not only physically, but spiritually. We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.
nrvbrd Posted:

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Posted by hmichick

As women, we should be especially sensitive to how rights in America can and have been changed. Years ago, women were property, with the womans family having to pay a dowery to the mans family before they got married. In other countries, women are still burned or stoned alive for disagreeing with the men in their lives or their governments. As we have evolved as a society, so have our rights to be seen as independent of our husbands. This came about through years of women campaigning for change. As intellegent young women, we can change the system and the laws through educating ourselves and voting. Thats how you make change happen. Not by sitting back and saying that liberals will destroy the laws or saying you cannot change the laws.

Martin Luther King said that you have to practice non-violence not only physically, but spiritually. We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



I was staying out of this- but BRAVO BRAVO-

Well said!!!!!!
shelzyp Posted:

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Good points hmichick

Jordan Posted:

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Oh good god, and the drama continues.

Becky, eroxgirl, hmichick - EXCELLENT points!!
peeweesgirl Posted:

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prayers
Jordan Posted:

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Oh Puh-lease.

peeweesgirl Posted:

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Oh Puh-leese ? What

BMD'sPeanut Posted:

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Posted by hmichick

We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



This cannot even be acheived on this site let alone the rest of the country and world.
shelzyp Posted:

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Posted by cp0329

Oh Puh-lease.




Jordan Posted:

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Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by hmichick

We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



This cannot even be acheived on this site let alone the rest of the country and world.

It CAN be achieved if we followed this:

As intellegent young women, we can change the system and the laws through educating ourselves and voting. Thats how you make change happen. Not by sitting back and saying that liberals will destroy the laws or saying you cannot change the laws.
Sage10.03 Posted:

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Posted by hmichick

As women, we should be especially sensitive to how rights in America can and have been changed. Years ago, women were property, with the womans family having to pay a dowery to the mans family before they got married. In other countries, women are still burned or stoned alive for disagreeing with the men in their lives or their governments. As we have evolved as a society, so have our rights to be seen as independent of our husbands. This came about through years of women campaigning for change. As intellegent young women, we can change the system and the laws through educating ourselves and voting. Thats how you make change happen. Not by sitting back and saying that liberals will destroy the laws or saying you cannot change the laws.

Martin Luther King said that you have to practice non-violence not only physically, but spiritually. We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



excellent point!!!
BMD'sPeanut Posted:

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Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by hmichick

We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



This cannot even be acheived on this site let alone the rest of the country and world.



Right or wrong???

peeweesgirl Posted:

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shelzyp Posted:

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peeweesgirl: to me too what??? I once again don't get what you are talking about?

Jordan Posted:

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Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by hmichick

We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



This cannot even be acheived on this site let alone the rest of the country and world.



Right or wrong???


WRONG!


As intellegent young women, we can change the system and the laws through educating ourselves and voting. Thats how you make change happen. Not by sitting back and saying that liberals will destroy the laws or saying you cannot change the laws.

peeweesgirl Posted:

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peeweesgirl Posted:

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sorry i forgot to put that
AprBride Posted:

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Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by hmichick

We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.



This cannot even be acheived on this site let alone the rest of the country and world.



Right or wrong???




Wrong. Every movement for change has to start somewhere. With that mentality, as said before, we still wouldn't have the ability to vote, and African Americans would be sitting in the back of the bus.

Not to get all righteous, but Rosa Parks was ONE woman, and look what she accomplished.

etd for spelling
BMD'sPeanut Posted:

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We should not hate or persecute those that we do not understand. Easier said than done, but the world would be a lot more tolerant if we lived by those standards.

SOMEONE WROTE THIS...AND ALL I AM SAYING IS THAT THIS CANNOT EVEN BE ACHIEVED ON THIS SITE.

PERSECUTION OF THOSE THAT ARE NOT UNDERSTOOD GOES ON ON THIS SITE. ITS GOING ON IN THIS VERY THREAD.


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