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Original post by B853

1. So FH hates going out. He wouldn't even go out for my MOH's engagement party and I let it slide since I know he doesn't like it. He hated going to his GM's bachelor parties, and always said he wouldn't want one. So I was looking into doing a joint thing. Now he claims he wants one.

2. 'Traditional' bachelor parties have always irked me. I feel like it's not fair that as fiancée's we are expected to just deal with the fact that our partners can go get rubbed up on by naked women etc and we have no recourse and MORE IMPORTANTLY no way to make this equal. SO after thinking long and hard I decided about a year or so ago, that in order to make FH's feel the same way as strippers etc make FB's feel, it would only be equal if FB stripped for a guy. Male strippers are just NOT the same as the multitude of female strip clubs around.

FH HATES my logic on this, and I don't care, coz I feel that it's hitting in the exact place where the fact that I am 'traditionally' supposed to be OK with a bachelor party is hitting me. It's not that I don't trust him yada yada yada it's just that I think it's disgusting and disrespectful.

I don't know where we'll end up on this... I'll probably let him go, but then let him know I will be rubbing myself ALLLLLLL over guys at my bachelorette
B853 Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

Posted by bethie853

And one of the bach parties he went to (where he was BBMing me) he told me all about what happened, and then the FW told me about it separately and she had a way watered down version which really p*ssed me off too!


maybe our FH's are too honest?

The really bad stories I've heard of Bach parties are mostly from FH


Yeah but who knows what truth I'll hear if he doesn't tell me the truth from his?! I'll be forever in the dark!
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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I am completely with you ladies. I feel the whole idea of 'LAST NIGHT OF SINGLE LIFE LET'S GO CRAZY' is completely wack.

You haven't been single for 3 years buddy

Seriously though, I feel that those kind of parties are stuff you should've gotten out of your system a long time ago before you settled down in a serious relationship.

They don't calling it 'settling down' for nothing - 'Calm your a$$ down!'
HeatherLynna Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

I am completely with you ladies. I feel the whole idea of 'LAST NIGHT OF SINGLE LIFE LET'S GO CRAZY' is completely wack.

You haven't been single for 3 years buddy

Seriously though, I feel that those kind of parties are stuff you should've gotten out of your system a long time ago before you settled down in a serious relationship.

They don't calling it 'settling down' for nothing - 'Calm your a$$ down!'



PREACH SISTA!

You aren't single for the night, you just aren't married yet! I could go on and on. I have felt this way since forever and FH and best man respect my wishes so I'm happy.
B853 Posted:

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See I'm wondering if I should talk to his brother about it. He's a pretty decent guy and he'll be organizing it.

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

I am completely with you ladies. I feel the whole idea of 'LAST NIGHT OF SINGLE LIFE LET'S GO CRAZY' is completely wack.

You haven't been single for 3 years buddy

Seriously though, I feel that those kind of parties are stuff you should've gotten out of your system a long time ago before you settled down in a serious relationship.

They don't calling it 'settling down' for nothing - 'Calm your a$$ down!'


hahaha.. this is amazing!

i couldn't agree with you more.

i know for a fact that my fiance isn't into strip clubs, being as i was the one who took him to his first strip club.

he tells me stories about some of his friends though and i feel pretty bad for their girlfriends.
stx29kls Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!



I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...
BlushandBashful Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!



I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.
HeatherLynna Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!



I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.



You took the words right out of my mouth. It has NOTHING to do with TRUST at all. I trust that he won't bang the stripper. However, just the thought of him there makes me uneasy. Everyone feels differently about the situation. I have talked to MANY people who both agree and disagree with my view, but either way it doesn't sway me. I know the things that I don't like and that is definitely one of them.
stx29kls Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!




I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.

Good for you!
BlushandBashful Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!




I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.

Good for you!


DCgirl82 Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!



I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.



You took the words right out of my mouth. It has NOTHING to do with TRUST at all. I trust that he won't bang the stripper. However, just the thought of him there makes me uneasy. Everyone feels differently about the situation. I have talked to MANY people who both agree and disagree with my view, but either way it doesn't sway me. I know the things that I don't like and that is definitely one of them.


Thats how I feel too. I trust him 110% that he wouldnt do anything wrong however I am totally not ok with any naked or half naked strippers shaking their 'stuff' infront of my FH! UGH! Me and him talked tho and he agreed that he would not be happy if some buff guy was dancing by me and putting his *** & other stuff infront of my face or on my lap..
B853 Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by DCgirl82

Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.



You took the words right out of my mouth. It has NOTHING to do with TRUST at all. I trust that he won't bang the stripper. However, just the thought of him there makes me uneasy. Everyone feels differently about the situation. I have talked to MANY people who both agree and disagree with my view, but either way it doesn't sway me. I know the things that I don't like and that is definitely one of them.


Thats how I feel too. I trust him 110% that he wouldnt do anything wrong however I am totally not ok with any naked or half naked strippers shaking their 'stuff' infront of my FH! UGH! Me and him talked tho and he agreed that he would not be happy if some buff guy was dancing by me and putting his *** & other stuff infront of my face or on my lap..


I agree too, and I already stated it's not a matter of trust....I just think it's disrespectful and disgusting and the fact that women are supposed to hush up and accept it. Not cool.
HeatherLynna Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by DCgirl82

Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by stx29kls

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

FH and I are doing joint (his suggestion). I've been having headaches as of late but not because of him. Some of my gf's are whining about guys coming. Isn't it about what I want? Suck it up!

I'm not against strippers in general, I've been to a stripclub in vegas. I wouldn't be crazy about FH going to stripclubs all the time but I'd let it go once in a blue moon.

What I don't like about ordering a stripper for a private party is that I feel (JMO) that they are a little sketchier and willing to do more nasty a$$ shiet for money. I've heard some crazy stuff from guys and I just hate any scene where drunk guys are egging eachother on. Not to say the bachelor would do anything but it doesn't sit right with me, either!



I agree with this 100%.

FH and I are also doing a Jack and Jill (which was his suggestion). However, we are agreeing to do this because we feel that, if we go our separate ways, it wont be as much fun. And yes...private parties are MUCH different than actual clubs. Those girls are nasty. Eewwwwwwwww.

My MOH and his BM are still planning the whole thing, but we told them what we want. We are actually ALL going to a strip club in NYC and the girls are going to take pole dancing lessons (from the strippers themselves) while the guys go do their thing.

Now, now ladies. I know what you are thinking: 'Is this chick crazy? She is going to the same club as her FH??' This is for the girls who don't want their men going to a strip club----and be honest----have you ever actually been to one (with female strippers)?

Before I met FH, I had boyfriends who would go to them and it would totally piss me off. However, I went to one with a bunch of my girl friends right before I met FH to see what it was like....and ladies....its not what you are all thinking. You don't have anything to worry about. Now, I actually go once in a blue moon with FH because it is fun!!

Trust your FH. If for some reason you don't think you can trust your FH, then you REALLY should be questioning whether or not you should be together. By the way, I don't think that getting a stripper for yourself just because your FH is getting one is going to make you feel any better about yourself. Only do it if you want to.

Hopefully this sheds some light...


Okay, I need to speak up. Just because people don't want their FH to go to a strip club does NOT mean they don't trust their FH. Completely different argument. For me, it is a matter of respect. I don't think it is appropriate or respectful for the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with to get a lap dance by a naked woman other than myself. End of story. That doesn't mean I don't trust him.



You took the words right out of my mouth. It has NOTHING to do with TRUST at all. I trust that he won't bang the stripper. However, just the thought of him there makes me uneasy. Everyone feels differently about the situation. I have talked to MANY people who both agree and disagree with my view, but either way it doesn't sway me. I know the things that I don't like and that is definitely one of them.


Thats how I feel too. I trust him 110% that he wouldnt do anything wrong however I am totally not ok with any naked or half naked strippers shaking their 'stuff' infront of my FH! UGH! Me and him talked tho and he agreed that he would not be happy if some buff guy was dancing by me and putting his *** & other stuff infront of my face or on my lap..


LOVE that you girls get it!!!!!!!!!!!
AngnShaun Posted:

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The only time Shaun going to a strip club doesnt bother me is if its a Bachelor Party...

Any other time, and im not ok with it.
B853 Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by AngnShaun

The only time Shaun going to a strip club doesnt bother me is if its a Bachelor Party...

Any other time, and im not ok with it.


Other bachelor parties, fine, because my FH would not be involved with stuff, but for his own, he can't escape it. He is the targeted one and people will be paying for him to get stuff.
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Def agree that it's not really about trust. I also trust FH not to cross any lines but it's just distasteful and a turn off IMO and the last thing I want is for my FH to turn me off.

Of course not every couple thinks the same way and I would never judge a couple who has his and hers stripper sex fest parties. If they are both on board, more power to them!

Back to bethie - You said your FBIL was a good guy and organizing the whole thing. I would feel way easier knowing that.

FH told me his brother's bachelor party was the most boring party ever (it was at a strip club) and the groom didn't even drink and wanted to leave.

So you can bring a horse to water but you can't make it take a drink! or something like that
Moonmist09 Posted:

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ok, i am with you 100% on you with some of your reasoning.
i hate that some men think it sok to get slobbered and gyrated on by other women. i think its degrating to women that they would subject themselves to this kind of self disrespect. i think its horrible that young boys see this type of behavior and think its ok and emulate it themselves when they get older.
i think its sad that any woman would put herself in this position. i know we all have bills to pay and loans to pay back and school loans to get through, but there is always another way.
again, this is JMO. with that said, idon't think that you going and getting gyrated on by a male stripper makes it any better. two wrongs don't make a right and this would qualify as such in my book. again JMO. If you explain to FH again how you don't like the idea of him going to a strip club, maybe you can convince him to go and do something else. if he hasn't wanted a B-party up until now, you have until next year to find out why all of a sudden he does want one. what made him change his mind?
i know that some couples get off on doing these types of things together, but obviously, you guys are not one of them, so try to work it out and see if you can go back to having a co-B-party.
HTH
Moonmist09 Posted:

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FH and I are also doing a joint B-Party. all of the same people will be coming to our party and since they all have kids, it will be easier to get everyone together once and have them get babysitters just once instead of twice.
Fh is totally ok with the idea and we are looking forward to planning it together!
AngnShaun Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by bethie853

Posted by AngnShaun

The only time Shaun going to a strip club doesnt bother me is if its a Bachelor Party...

Any other time, and im not ok with it.


Other bachelor parties, fine, because my FH would not be involved with stuff, but for his own, he can't escape it. He is the targeted one and people will be paying for him to get stuff.


Idk i personally still dont have a problem with it then...

ETA: I would never be comfortable telling him he cant do that... cause if i wanted to i would... and im sure he wouldnt like...

I definitely dont enjoy thinking about his bachelor party but theres nothing i can do about it...
B853 Posted:

Re: Slight Bachelor Party Vent

Posted by Moonmist09
with that said, idon't think that you going and getting gyrated on by a male stripper makes it any better. two wrongs don't make a right and this would qualify as such in my book.
HTH


Yeah I don't either, I have no desire to do that. I think male strippers are ridiculous and they really only get women to laugh. The two industries are totally different, or has anyone been to a male strip club where they dance on poles and you can pay for a private lap dance in VIP rooms?? All I'm aware of is Webster Hall or something similar. I didn't actually suggest that, I suggested me stripping for guys, and I think it made him feel similar to how I feel about naked h o o chies all up over him.

Anyway, I will talk to him about it again because we have a lot of time, but mark my words, he might be a decent guy but some of his friends and GM are not so much, and would love the chance to make him feel uncomfortable/embarrassed by doing this. It's beyond baffling that he even wants one since he didn't.

Anney - yeah my slight concern is that he doesn't even want his brother as BM, he wants his best friend who is more suspect. I think that the best friend probably wants to go to the clubs for himself, and would arrange for it, but then FH would be the target.

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