So my MOH (cousin- but we're not close, I had to choose her b/c of family issues) wants to have the same hairstyle as me (which will be down and wavy). Can I make all the BM's wear updo's or would that be unfair to all the other girls (and look weird in the photos since I'm wearing a downdo)? Or should I just tell the hair stylist (who will think I'm crazy probably) not to give my MOH the same hairstyle. Keep in mind, this is the same MOH that keeps telling me she has to look better than me that day.
fujamaga
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Posted by madseason
Tell her look - whatever u like - besides what im doing - just out of respect for you.
Honestly - your post is troubling in itself - your MOH shouldbe close and not chosen out of family issues - and im just going to be honest with u, if thats how ur mOH was chosen - she will wind up with the same hair as you andj ust not caring
Dont be a pushover.
Ideally that would've been the case, but my family is very annoying in that respect. It would've meant WWIII. I think you're right with her choosing the hairstyle just beacuse, I'm hoping with instructions the hairstylist won't listen to her.
fashiondiva
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You are the bride, and no bridesmaid will look like you on your wedding day regardless if you all wear your hair down. (the white gown sets you apart).
Find some photos of hair style that would be appropriate for your MOH and bring them to the stylist the day of the wedding...and just tell the stylist that your hair should be special that day. I sincerely doubt that a hairstylist would replicate the brides' hairstyle on a bridesmaid anyway. Best of luck.
mf2009
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Ohhhhh H E L L to the NOOOOO! i'm going to repeat what everyone has to say and tell you that this is YOUR day and that YOU will look the best out of everyone. This chick needs to be put waaaaay back in her place and remember what an honor it is to be in her position and she needs to do a better job of being your right hand woman. You TELL her she is NOT going to have the same hairstyle as you and be sure to tell the hairdresser that as well. Do not hold back and be nice cause she doesn't deserve it!! She needs to get her act togther real quick because this is uncalled for ESPECIALLY from your MOH. As far as the BM you can suggest a few updos and go over them with the girls. I don't think its necessary for them to look exactly the same as long as no one stands out too much! Keep your head up sweetie and remind this girl who's day it is!
'I have to look better then you?' Are you serious?!!!
