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so i was thinking

luna bride x Posted:

so i was thinking

that i should probably tell you guys i'm planning a commitment ceremony.. although i still consider it a wedding.

i know most of you probably don't care.. and i usually don't broadcast my business, but i feel like i'm keeping it a secret if i don't tell you!

i almost started referring to my girlfriend as my FH.. that's when i was like WOW i really need to come clean!

anyways.. if you have any questions feel free to ask.

i hope you still wanna talk to me!


luna bride x Posted:

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oh and in case you were wondering.. in my picture she's on the left and i'm on the right!

mandc722 Posted:

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I'm sorry that you felt like you had to 'come clean' ... it's not like it's a dirty secret you were hiding. You're still getting married to someone you love. You should consider it a wedding. Congratulations!

mrspatry Posted:

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More power to you! Congrats!
Pencils Posted:

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Ii's OK, a wedding's a wedding, even if it's not legal right now. (Which I think should be changed--if two people want to be married, more power to them.)

Have a wonderful day, and congratulations!

and keep on posting.
diva7531 Posted:

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Thanks for being honest, I would still consider it a wedding. MY definition is a commitment 2 people make to one another, no matter what sexes anyone is. Glad you feel comfortable enough to 'come clean'
MikeandLisa Posted:

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Posted by mlny83

that i should probably tell you guys i'm planning a commitment ceremony.. although i still consider it a wedding.

i know most of you probably don't care.. and i usually don't broadcast my business, but i feel like i'm keeping it a secret if i don't tell you!

i almost started referring to my girlfriend as my FH.. that's when i was like WOW i really need to come clean!

anyways.. if you have any questions feel free to ask.

i hope you still wanna talk to me!





congratuations!!! i think that is wonderful. youre celebrating your love, the same as all of us. i would hope everyone would continue to want your valuable input is your family supportive?
thelastresort Posted:

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Hey, a wedding is a wedding. There is another bride on 07 who is also planning a wedding like you. Good for you guys!

ChrisnAmy Posted:

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Thats wonderful! I love to hear about other people in love. It makes me Happy

twinkle164 Posted:

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Doesn't really matter. I have no doubt that you are going through the same, if not more, stress as the rest of us.
KitWisdom Posted:

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Oh, that’s what I always just figured! I tend to look at the user pics a lot so I can remember who posted what and all that, so yeah. As long as you are marrying the person you love, it’s a wedding!

LB and DC Posted:

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Posted by mlny83

that i should probably tell you guys i'm planning a commitment ceremony.. although i still consider it a wedding.

i know most of you probably don't care.. and i usually don't broadcast my business, but i feel like i'm keeping it a secret if i don't tell you!

i almost started referring to my girlfriend as my FH.. that's when i was like WOW i really need to come clean!

anyways.. if you have any questions feel free to ask.

i hope you still wanna talk to me!





a wedding is a wedding, no matter who is getting married. if you love your girlfriend, then congrats to you on your engagement and impending marriage!!!

and not to be controversial, but i hate the idea of 'civil unions' etc. - people should be allowed to marry whoever they want - and call it a marriage!!
melissankurt07 Posted:

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Congratulations!!! In my eyes it is still a wedding. The 2 of you want to commit to each other which means you obviously love one another so it is a Marriage. I am sure you are going through all of the same stress, fun, anxiety, frustration and excitement we all are so keep on posting!!!!!
DINAAMATUCCIO Posted:

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Good for you ... you found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with ,... the one you love !! Congratulations!!!

rkl1130 Posted:

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Congratulations!!!!

danibrwneyes Posted:

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Of course we want to talk to you! All I can say is you should not feel like you have to come clean. As long as you are happy we are happy for you!!! Congrats!

imas98 Posted:

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a wedding is a wedding, no matter who is getting married. if you love your girlfriend, then congrats to you on your engagement and impending marriage!!!

and not to be controversial, but i hate the idea of 'civil unions' etc. - people should be allowed to marry whoever they want - and call it a marriage!!



I totally agree !!

Congratulations & happy planning !!!
kahlua716 Posted:

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Posted by imas98


a wedding is a wedding, no matter who is getting married. if you love your girlfriend, then congrats to you on your engagement and impending marriage!!!

and not to be controversial, but i hate the idea of 'civil unions' etc. - people should be allowed to marry whoever they want - and call it a marriage!!




I totally agree !!

Congratulations & happy planning !!!


Me too! Congrats!
lunabride Posted:

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mmnnng Posted:

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Congratulations!! I was wondering if you have found a pastor yet?? Pastor April from the Church of ancient ways is awesome and has the greatest commitment ceremony certificates!

All of us here are in the same boat...going crazy putting together the party of our lives, it doesn't matter who you are marrying, we are all in this together! You are having a wedding and you should be able to call it such without having to hide behind 'commitmet ceremony', it makes me so mad! I only hope that one day someone in this darn country gets over themselves and realizes that everyone deserves the same rights!

Congrats on everything and best of luck!

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