One of my bridesmaids for my this SATURDAY wedding just cancelled on me!!!!! I'm beyond furious and upset. How could she do that? She hurt her back, which I get, but she is ruining my wedding day! This is my oldest friend and she said she 'hopes this doesnt end our friendship'-- i told her it wouldnt but I think it really might -- I think based on the way I feel right now, I'm DONE.
Posted by Danielle41209
if you're going to end a friendship because she legitimately hurt her back, then maybe you shouldn't have been friends to begin with. A back injury is serious and potentially life threatening. Did you ever think to call her and 1st: see how she's doing and 2nd: get her a wheelchair so she can still be a part of the day???
Think before you act because the way you're portraying yourself right now is a self centered bridezilla. I know your wedding is coming up but be reasonable...
Granted if there is more to this than what you wrote, then it's a different story...
just my 2 cents...
Posted by allornil
Posted by Danielle41209
if you're going to end a friendship because she legitimately hurt her back, then maybe you shouldn't have been friends to begin with. A back injury is serious and potentially life threatening. Did you ever think to call her and 1st: see how she's doing and 2nd: get her a wheelchair so she can still be a part of the day???
Think before you act because the way you're portraying yourself right now is a self centered bridezilla. I know your wedding is coming up but be reasonable...
Granted if there is more to this than what you wrote, then it's a different story...
just my 2 cents...
Sorry but I agree with you.
Honestly, if she hurt her back I wouldn't be mad with her. She's not doing this to ruin ur day, she's tryin to take care of herself. I think itd be a little messed up to end a friendship over ur friend hurting her back.... Jmho.
I hear what you are all saying but I guess and I guess I know RATIONALLY that its not something she did on purpose but it doesnt make me any less upset. I'm very upset about the whole thing and it sort of puts a damper on one of hte most important days of my life..... I guess if it were me, I would take some pain meds and make my way to the wedding....and I'm not just saying that--- I would do anythign and everything I could if I was in a wedding party to be there....especially three days before the wedding!!! and yes, I did offer for her to sit, stand, whatever she would need to be able to be there....
Posted by Danielle41209
if you're going to end a friendship because she legitimately hurt her back, then maybe you shouldn't have been friends to begin with. A back injury is serious and potentially life threatening. Did you ever think to call her and 1st: see how she's doing and 2nd: get her a wheelchair so she can still be a part of the day???
Think before you act because the way you're portraying yourself right now is a self centered bridezilla. I know your wedding is coming up but be reasonable...
Granted if there is more to this than what you wrote, then it's a different story...
just my 2 cents...
Posted by bas23
I hear what you are all saying but I guess and I guess I know RATIONALLY that its not something she did on purpose but it doesnt make me any less upset. I'm very upset about the whole thing and it sort of puts a damper on one of hte most important days of my life..... I guess if it were me, I would take some pain meds and make my way to the wedding....and I'm not just saying that--- I would do anythign and everything I could if I was in a wedding party to be there....especially three days before the wedding!!! and yes, I did offer for her to sit, stand, whatever she would need to be able to be there....
That totally sucks. I'm so sorry. Do you think that she's not really hurt? If she is really hurt badly, its tough to fault her but it blows. Maybe she'll feel be able to rest and heal alot in the next 3 days and be able to make it to some part of it.
Posted by bas23
I hear what you are all saying but I guess and I guess I know RATIONALLY that its not something she did on purpose but it doesnt make me any less upset. I'm very upset about the whole thing and it sort of puts a damper on one of hte most important days of my life..... I guess if it were me, I would take some pain meds and make my way to the wedding....and I'm not just saying that--- I would do anythign and everything I could if I was in a wedding party to be there....especially three days before the wedding!!! and yes, I did offer for her to sit, stand, whatever she would need to be able to be there....
Posted by bas23
I hear what you are all saying but I guess and I guess I know RATIONALLY that its not something she did on purpose but it doesnt make me any less upset. I'm very upset about the whole thing and it sort of puts a damper on one of hte most important days of my life..... I guess if it were me, I would take some pain meds and make my way to the wedding....and I'm not just saying that--- I would do anythign and everything I could if I was in a wedding party to be there....especially three days before the wedding!!! and yes, I did offer for her to sit, stand, whatever she would need to be able to be there....
glad i'm not your 'friend'
Posted by bas23
I hear what you are all saying but I guess and I guess I know RATIONALLY that its not something she did on purpose but it doesnt make me any less upset. I'm very upset about the whole thing and it sort of puts a damper on one of hte most important days of my life..... I guess if it were me, I would take some pain meds and make my way to the wedding....and I'm not just saying that--- I would do anythign and everything I could if I was in a wedding party to be there....especially three days before the wedding!!! and yes, I did offer for her to sit, stand, whatever she would need to be able to be there....
Posted by DMLHeartsCRM
Posted by allornil
Posted by Danielle41209
if you're going to end a friendship because she legitimately hurt her back, then maybe you shouldn't have been friends to begin with. A back injury is serious and potentially life threatening. Did you ever think to call her and 1st: see how she's doing and 2nd: get her a wheelchair so she can still be a part of the day???
Think before you act because the way you're portraying yourself right now is a self centered bridezilla. I know your wedding is coming up but be reasonable...
Granted if there is more to this than what you wrote, then it's a different story...
just my 2 cents...
Sorry but I agree with you.
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