So my husband and I are getting separated

Original post by aliciahelene

Mar 25, 2005 08:46 PM

We had problems before the marriage, I should have trusted my gut and got out then, but I thought I had a bad case of wedding jitters..now its still here and it turns out he never wanted these boys. I feel like Im going to throw up. Ive thought long and hard about it and I am still getting those boys. Ive done all of the work, all of the communicating with them,,Ive paid every dime towards this adoption..they are my children, and although I had hoped to give them a nice happy home with a loving father, Im glad I found this out NOW before they got here. I am not asking for anyones advice..my mind is made up ..I have thought this through COMPLETLY, but I could use alot of hugs!!! Please

tracyg Posted: Mar 26, 2005 08:05 AM

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KimberlyBride Posted: Mar 26, 2005 08:24 AM

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I'm so sorry. We are all here for you.

Moehick Posted: Mar 26, 2005 08:30 AM

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Alicia,

All my Hugs , prayers and strength go out to you. At least you have the piece of mind to know you are making the right decision. Bringing those boys home to you will be the best thing for them and for yourself! You will get the love you need and so will they. Good luck in the future, if you need anything don't hesitate to ask

Monkeybride Posted: Mar 26, 2005 08:58 AM

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You are going to be a wonderful mother I have no doubt in my mind about that. Those boys are going to be so lucky to have you.

cjb88 Posted: Mar 26, 2005 09:02 AM

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Everything will work out in the end!!

My mother was a single mother... she got left with two young kids and no money when my father died (I was 10, bro was 5) She had to sell our house, and we rented...but she always gave us love and support, and that is all you really need, my brother and I turned out fine, a lot better than a lot of other people I know, who had all the money, but not enough love...and it definately seems you have enough love for those boys!! If my mom was able to do it, you can definately do it!!

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Mar 26, 2005 09:02 AM

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I am sending you an FM and lots and LOTS of

AndreaLMT Posted: Mar 26, 2005 09:36 AM

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So sorry Alicia, I know thing will work out for the best. I admire your strength.

dandj Posted: Mar 26, 2005 09:37 AM

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If there is anything you need, just ask....

sun86moon Posted: Mar 26, 2005 09:46 AM

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Hugs
and prayers to you at this time.
From what I have read from your posts you appear to be a very strong willed woman and I know that your boys (which I am happy that you decided to keep) will have a wonderful life with you.

Sasha96 Posted: Mar 26, 2005 10:02 AM

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Diane Posted: Mar 26, 2005 10:16 AM

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I am so sorry. I have been following your story for awhile, and those boys are going to be the LUCKIEST BOYS, because they will have YOU in their lives.
All my best to you

btrflygrl Posted: Mar 26, 2005 10:21 AM

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OH MY GOD Alicia!! There are no words besides you are the STRONGEST woman I've ever known. God Bless you and those boys.

WE are all here for you!! Have strength, patience, and FAITH

Irishbride Posted: Mar 26, 2005 10:34 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this. You will be a wonderful Mom to those 2 boys. Lots of for you.

BriBri529 Posted: Mar 26, 2005 10:56 AM

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I am sorry to hear about you and your husband. I am so glad that you are still going to go through with the adoption of the boys. They will be the lights of your life and once they arrive it will all be worth it!

Betty Posted: Mar 26, 2005 11:04 AM

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You are going to be a wonderful mother. Those boys will be so lucky to have you

Eireann Posted: Mar 26, 2005 11:05 AM

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2003fallwedding Posted: Mar 26, 2005 11:25 AM

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Adri Posted: Mar 26, 2005 11:42 AM

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Alicia, I'm so sorry. You're going to be a terrific mom because you're a strong woman with a wonderful heart.

My prayers and thoughts are with you

drewsgirl Posted: Mar 26, 2005 11:47 AM

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im so sorry. these little boys are so lucky to have you as their mom

JodiBabe Posted: Mar 26, 2005 12:05 PM

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Alicia,

I am soooooo sorry to hear but I know that you are a wonderfully strong woman and you will make it through this! You will be a GREAT MOM and those boys will always love you for all that YOU have done for them!

God Bless!