So my MOH just informed me that she can not be my MOH

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:34 AM

So my MOH just informed me that she can not be my MOH

I was very upset and shocked to be told she had another wedding to attend but still wanted to come to reception

FutureMrsCat050412 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:35 AM

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wow that's tough!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:35 AM

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what?? another wedding on that same day?? is this a mutual friend of yours....

Is she really close with you?

Cataverri Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:35 AM

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I'm sorry to hear that,. but I would flir the F**ck out.

Not nice.

mollygurl24 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:35 AM

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Wow, that is so wrong.

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:37 AM

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are you really close with her? i don't understand why she would choose the other wedding over yours?!

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:38 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

are you really close with her? i don't understand why she would choose the other wedding over yours?!

thats the first thought that popped into my head... unless this other wedding is family... shes completely effed up

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:40 AM

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What???

Is she in the other wedding? I mean, I would think being the MOH should take precedence over just attending another wedding!

mrsq2be Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:40 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

are you really close with her? i don't understand why she would choose the other wedding over yours?!

thats my thought too! she knew seh was your MOH - why would she choose another wedding over yours?!

FutureJOC Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:43 AM

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wow is all I can say to that! I could maybe understand stepping down for financial reasons but to tell you it's because she has another wedding 'to go to' is ridic!

MrsVMW Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:44 AM

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Ohhh no that's horrible, unless the other wedding is family I guess its kinda understandable. But still I'd think being MOH would be more important, its not like she was just a BM or simply attending.

b/c I know this is stressful

DCgirl82 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:47 AM

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Wait did she already say yes to being your MOH????

evita2781 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:49 AM

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omg are u serious? did you ask her to be a MOH already before she told you this?

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:50 AM

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She had said yes as soon as I asked her which was a couple of months ago. We are close and that is why I am so shocked. I am upset but @ the same time, I do not want to stress about it. I have so many other things to worry about such as planning this wedding and waiting my FH to return from overseas

DCgirl82 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:53 AM

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OMG! Im so sorry I would be so upset too... She already said yes and she didnt know about this other wedding until now?

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:55 AM

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Exactly my point.....I really think she is full of BS. She is very possesive and she gets jealous very easily. I guess she doesn't like the fact that my other BM's have been helping me more than her.

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:55 AM

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AWWWW CHICA, IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT... CAN YOU BUMP UP SOMEONE FROM YOUR BP TO FILL HER SPOT... WILL YOU STILL INVITE HER TO THE WEDDING??

WHAT EXACTLY WAS HER REASONING AGAIN....BECAUSE SHE HAS TO GO TO ANOTHER WEDDING?? OR SHES IN THE BRIDAL PARTY?

leesah85 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 10:57 AM

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summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:07 AM

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Her reason she has another wedding to go to but she still wants to come to the reception so ummm how is that possible if she has another wedding to attend to? and she didn't know this sooner? She was so Gong-ho to my MOH and all of a sudden I'm getting so much help from my FH's sister's and she supposedly has to attend another wedding.......SURE!