So my MOH just informed me that she can not be my MOH

Original post by summerbride2580

Dec 03, 2010 10:34 AM

I was very upset and shocked to be told she had another wedding to attend but still wanted to come to reception

DCgirl82 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:13 AM

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Ok so if she wants to come to your reception how is she going to the other wedding? and also.. Whos wedding is she attending??

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:14 AM

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exactly!! Lol....I'm just like ummmm
I am very hurt that she is telling me this now

kimmaymb20 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:18 AM

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itbroi805 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:23 AM

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wow that's crazy and completely wrong!

You don't back out of something like that and if you do must be prepared to end a friendship IMO. I guess it's better to find out now that later!

fdnybride163 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:31 AM

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that is ballsy if she thinks she can attend the reception, not come to the ceremony, and still be your friend after comitting to the MOH spot???

tell her thanks but no thanks, you dont need someone to be at the wedding that will just annoy you and disrupt your day

DONT SEND HER AN IVNITE!!!!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:37 AM

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OMG im so sorry to hear that!!!!!!!

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:46 AM

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allornil Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:46 AM

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whaaat? really? thats complete BS. she already committed to you. totally rude.

squeeky126 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:49 AM

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Wow!!! I would think if she is the MOH your wedding would be priority...no???? I'm sorry love...that stinks!!!

IrishAli Posted: Dec 03, 2010 11:59 AM

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Wow this just smells of lies

She makes no sense

I probably wouldn't even invite her to the wedding at this point

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:00 PM

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Thanks everyone....I'm even thinking should I still have a MOH? Should I pick someone else? The only one's that have helped me thus far and have been so supportive are my FH's sisters.....

atitus724 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:14 PM

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that is so awful! how could someone do that?! She def has her priorities messed up. What kind of friend would do that?

for you <33

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:20 PM

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Posted by summerbride2580

Thanks everyone....I'm even thinking should I still have a MOH? Should I pick someone else? The only one's that have helped me thus far and have been so supportive are my FH's sisters.....

I would wait to ask someone else when the time gets closer... I know that it seems like it's around the corner but think about it for a month or two and then if you feel like one of your girls really stepped up and deserves it then ask

Sorry this happened btw,

spdy540 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:34 PM

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SORRY TO HEAR THAT

RandEWedding2011 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:36 PM

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WOW!!! That is nuts..I say cut that b***h off and be done with her...Awful! Sorry girl but your better off without her!!

summerbride2580 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:37 PM

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Yea, my FH and I do not even wanto to invite her....

Moonmist09 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 12:56 PM

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wow! that's harsh but it shows you just how much you mean to her.
i would replace her

JLWSJC Posted: Dec 03, 2010 01:15 PM

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How long has your date beenbooked, maybe she didn't know the weddings would be the same day til now?

I'd talk to her about it before you freak on her. If she's someone close enough to you that you wanted her to be MOH, then you should be able to be like so hey, why'd you say yes if you had this other wedding? I'm sad you won't be int he BP! Try to get to the bottom of it.

If it's clear she's BS'ing you after that, THEN write her off, but give her a chance. WEddings make people act weird.

meya1084 Posted: Dec 03, 2010 01:27 PM

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Even if someone in my family was getting married I would skip that wedding if I was moh at another one. Thats totally rude! I'm sorry you have to go through this