so sad and upset...

after reading everyones thoughts, i think i would go for the day after your coworker

if youre really just simply acquaintances at work and are not inviting the same people...then i don think its a big deal

take everyoneeeeeeeeeeeeee out of the equation and just think if you and fh and your wedding...

if that date works then do it!!

but ulitmately you have to be happy...
i wouldn't go and change the venue though, the bourne is beautiful!!!!

maybe sleep on it one more night and see how you feel...what does fh think?


oh and ps...i wouldnt say anythingggg to the girl at work...and then when you do or when you have to...act surprised, like 'oh wow i didnt even remember that was your date'
that should help with the awkwardness

First off, I want to THANK all of you girls for all of your help and advice. I don't think I would be this calm now if it weren't for you.

I found out that 6/26 was actually open and just booked it over the phone. So I guess I've officially set my date!

I'm going to be a June 26, 2011 bride at Bourne Mansion!!!!!!

YAY! another June 11 bride! Congrats!!

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

YAY! another June 11 bride! Congrats!!

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Thanks! I was originally your wedding date twin.. but no longer.

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Posted by jwleewedding

First off, I want to THANK all of you girls for all of your help and advice. I don't think I would be this calm now if it weren't for you.

I found out that 6/26 was actually open and just booked it over the phone. So I guess I've officially set my date!

I'm going to be a June 26, 2011 bride at Bourne Mansion!!!!!!

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Good!! See, everything works out a certain way for a reason.

see it worked out!

Dates r booking so fast!

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Posted by April_Luv

see it worked out!

Dates r booking so fast!

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yea... i'm so surprised! all the brides are really on their game!

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Posted by jwleewedding

First off, I want to THANK all of you girls for all of your help and advice. I don't think I would be this calm now if it weren't for you.

I found out that 6/26 was actually open and just booked it over the phone. So I guess I've officially set my date!

I'm going to be a June 26, 2011 bride at Bourne Mansion!!!!!!

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see it all worked out! :)

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Posted by Tromsugar2b

OMG :( sorry to hear it !!! any chance of changing your date?

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Yea, I actually called him back and booked another date instead. This time I locked it in and put a deposit on it. Signing the contracts this Sunday.

May not be the day I wanted, but it's my Wedding Day now.

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Posted by Tromsugar2b

OMG :( sorry to hear it !!! any chance of changing your date?

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Yea, I actually called him back and booked another date instead. This time I locked it in and put a deposit on it. Signing the contracts this Sunday.

May not be the day I wanted, but it's my Wedding Day now.

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so what's your new wedding date?

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Posted by jwleewedding

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Posted by Tromsugar2b

OMG :( sorry to hear it !!! any chance of changing your date?

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Yea, I actually called him back and booked another date instead. This time I locked it in and put a deposit on it. Signing the contracts this Sunday.

May not be the day I wanted, but it's my Wedding Day now.

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so what's your new wedding date?

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June 26, 2011 at Bourne Mansion~

Congrats! I'm glad June worked out for you... Pretty soon you will forget your old date

I had that experience too..only they already had my money, but I am convinced it was all for the better and I found a place I love 1000x times more. it will be the same for you.