As some as you know, I was having a huge problem with FH's father and mother. Well after a long ridiculous day, I have decided to cancel my wedding. It is really hard, but I cannot marry a man who is still afraid to tell his parents 'no'. I love Tom dearly, but he needs to get himself a backbone, before I can become his wife. We are still together, but at this time, I will not be marrying him. Im sorry to be such a Debbie Downer!!
Kristin
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I'm so sorry.... I hope this all works out for you
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So sorry Kris. You and Tom can come by anytime to the condo...or just yourself to hang with me and Sul. We love you! If you need anything call us. Being that I am a pro at getting money back where it is due...let me know if you run into any problems...I will try to help you out.
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I am so sorry
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BKtoLI
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Kristin,
I am so sorry you are going through this, I know exactly what you are talking about, having been there myself years ago, except I broke off the relationship completely.
It's a hard decision to make, but ultimately you have to do what's best for yourself.
I wish you all the best, and remember, there are no bad decisions as long as you stay true to yourself.
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Keep your spirits up woman! I know things are turning around...I am with you two every step of the way. Don't forget at the end of the day, it is just you and Tom who are happy together, and that is all that matters.
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Thank you so much!!! It was very hard but I cant do it. It will never get better, it will only get worse. I know some people have said to me, that by doing this I am letting his parents win, but I think I would lose a lot more by marrying him right now!
I don't think that you're letting them win by calling off the marriage, I think that if you will be happier not being married to him..you're the winner for making the best decision for yourself. Always remember you need to do what's best for you. You may love him, but loving yourself and knowing what's right for you is more important.
I agree - who wants to be in a relationship where you always have to play a game of who wins and loses?
I am glad you made this decision - you will let yourself grow and find yourself a bit - its the best gift anyone can do to prevent a disaster in their life like a marriage or a relation ship thats not working! Good luck!
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I wish you the best.... sometimes God brings situations like these into our lives and decisions that are difficult to make to help us to grow... and become the women he wants us to be. It takes a lot of courage to make that kind of decision. Knowing to do what is best for you is the greatest gift your can give yourself !
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I am so sorry to hear the bad news. I know you mentioned that you don't think things will change but maybe you should give yourself some time. You never know. Good Luck!!
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I am so sorry!
I wish I had been as strong as you when I married my ex husband. I did not realize I had married 3 people.
Please know that we are here for you if you need us.
