*Someone needs to explain what Happened*
I am going to take it upon myself to try to make this as drama free as possible.
For those of you who are confused...
Some of the girls on the board felt the need to start a new board to post on because there was a lot of drama going on here a few months ago. According to them, they wanted a place to come to post about different wedding things, vent, and also talk about things that were personal and didn't want to talk about on here.
In the process, these girls became good friends and began hanging out and doing things together. People have accused them of being a clique. The board was by invite only and they started to post DFZ (for Drama Free Zone) to promote no drama on the original LIW that we all love.
As time progressed posts ranting about the content of the boards here started up bashing general ideas and threads as well as specific people. A lot of people participated in these boards, but just as many didn't or tried to difuse the situation.
Around noon or so someone posted a link to the website informing all of us. The initial thread and a couple of the response threads were taken down by Kim to try to keep the peace. As a lot of arguing ensued and many of the girls were hurt. The board where all the bashing took place was also taken down, so none of the links work and you cannot find it or any of the posts anymore. Some of the information was saved, but the girls who have saved the quotes have not yet posted anything.
The 09ers Shower was canceled as a response to so many people pulling out of the shower after feeling hurt or being hurt by the secret boards. Some of the people (both guilty and innocent) are also deleting their accounts on here as well.
This thread is just to inform people of this and I will not tolerate drama on here! Please do not post nasty things, post positive things only.
I agree that it is totally not fair. I think it is petty and horrible and I'm hurt by all of this even though I didn't see anything about me on there. I just think that we shouldn't let what happened THERE ruin what happens HERE.
If you have a problem with something someone said about you. Don't fight about it here, FM that person. Let's be adults from now on.
For those of you who are confused...
Some of the girls on the board felt the need to start a new board to post on because there was a lot of drama going on here a few months ago. According to them, they wanted a place to come to post about different wedding things, vent, and also talk about things that were personal and didn't want to talk about on here.
In the process, these girls became good friends and began hanging out and doing things together. People have accused them of being a clique. The board was by invite only and they started to post DFZ (for Drama Free Zone) to promote no drama on the original LIW that we all love.
As time progressed posts ranting about the content of the boards here started up bashing general ideas and threads as well as specific people. A lot of people participated in these boards, but just as many didn't or tried to difuse the situation.
Around noon or so someone posted a link to the website informing all of us. The initial thread and a couple of the response threads were taken down by Kim to try to keep the peace. As a lot of arguing ensued and many of the girls were hurt. The board where all the bashing took place was also taken down, so none of the links work and you cannot find it or any of the posts anymore. Some of the information was saved, but the girls who have saved the quotes have not yet posted anything.
The 09ers Shower was canceled as a response to so many people pulling out of the shower after feeling hurt or being hurt by the secret boards. Some of the people (both guilty and innocent) are also deleting their accounts on here as well.
This thread is just to inform people of this and I will not tolerate drama on here! Please do not post nasty things, post positive things only.
I agree that it is totally not fair. I think it is petty and horrible and I'm hurt by all of this even though I didn't see anything about me on there. I just think that we shouldn't let what happened THERE ruin what happens HERE.
If you have a problem with something someone said about you. Don't fight about it here, FM that person. Let's be adults from now on.
