The BM's wife, last month, offered to let me borrow her wedding veil. Now they are getting a divorce. I think, now I should decline her offer because I don't want the BM to feel sad that day. It's going to be a hard day for him anyways, but to make it worse and see me with his ex's veil on.... So, what would you do?
BlushandBashful
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I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck.
leighlo1226
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I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck.
ITA
KarynK
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Yeah, that's what I thought. Thanks.
IrishAli
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Yeah- I wouldn't. I still have nothing borrowed either
bubblichik
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I wouldn't. Maybe you can just say you found a veil you loved and couldn't get it out of your head.
fdnybride163
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i wouldnt borrow the veil either. for me that would seem like bad luck.
plus now that he has told you that i would have that in my mind everytime i looked at it
CantWait2Wed
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I wouldn't wear it...
adelz
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I wouldn't borrow it.
ami1129
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I wouldnt either. Although it wouldve been nice, not under the circumstances.
angelscri
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Posted by BlushandBashful
I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck.
ITA
dmbfan36
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Posted by angelscri
Posted by BlushandBashful
I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck.
ITA
I agree you should borrow something from a couple in a happy marriage!
LoveyDovey
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i agree, i wouldnt use it
maybe she won't bring it up at all
if she does, say someone bought it for you and you found one you loved
haitianbeautie
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I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck. [/QUOTE
ITA
leesah85
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I wouldn't borrow it either.
Technically, you are supposed to 'borrow' something from a happily married person, so you get their same luck.
ITA with this
KarynK
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Thanks guys, both FH and I thought the same thing. Such a sad situation. We're celebrating our love and theirs fell apart, right in front of us and we didn't even see it!
MNM0805
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i wouldnt borrow the veil either. for me that would seem like bad luck.
plus now that he has told you that i would have that in my mind everytime i looked at it
