So with us moving in really soon and the second bedroom options lurking around AND the wedding just around the corner, FH and everyone around us can't stop talking about babies! I haven't even had my bridal shower and there is talk about a baby shower! Anyone planning on children soon after the wedding, I know I wasn't!
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waiting!!! I will be married at 23 yrs old. So I definitely have time. Plus I am in my Masters for Education and want to be able to finish in 09 and get a teaching job. I would really love tenure before having a child. but I will already be 24 when I graduate and another 3 years to wait to try to have a kid so I can have tenure will put me at 27 and I just hope I can concieve easily because I want 1 or 2 by the time I am 30. I want to be done with having kids at 35 haha.
I always wanted to be a young mom. But we are going to be waiting then probably 4 or 5 yrs before we have one. Plus our whole relationship has been apart so we deserve US time haha
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We are hoping that we can start trying around our 1 year anniversary. We want to buy a house and be settled and then its baby time
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preggo as we speak!! and expecting a girl!
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I am 31( almost 32 ) and my FH is 37 , and I have no desire to have a child right away. I want to wait at least a year ( maybe two ) and just enjoy being married before our lives completely change when we have children.
Honestly I would rather get another puppy then have a child , I am SO not ready for the responsibility . My FH also expressed the desire to have one by 40 , so I can't wait too long .
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we are waiting until we can buy a house..probably start looking next year..once we know we are going to be moving into a house very soon, we can try for a baby. But until then, we have no room for one.
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preggo as we speak!! and expecting a girl!
Congratulations!
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preggo as we speak!! and expecting a girl!
Congratulations!!!
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Well, I'm getting married later this month, and we are probably going to start trying in August/Sept. b/c my sister is getting married in August and I don't want to be pregnant for her wedding b/c I'm the MOH.
I am in my friends wedding this August too and don't want to be pregnant.
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Even though FH wants to have a baby very soon, I htink we will wait about 1 or 2 years to start trying. I am 29 and he's 30 and have been together for 8 years, so we are fairly ready, it's just the finances (and me not working) that concerns me.
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I want to wait at least 2 years, I never lived with FH and I want alone time and we want to go to Italy and Greece. So once I get that out of the way, I will be able to settle down and have kids, although seeing my niece and my prego sister, it is getting harder everyday.
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Hey Date Twin!!! Yeah, I would LOVE a HM baby BUT FH and I both agreed that we want to buy our first home and get settled before having babies. But we are hoping to buy a house right after the wedding and then maybe consider trying around Christmas/New Years-which would give us 6 months of being married. And who knows if we will actually be able to have children right away.
But I seriously have BIG TIME BABY ITCH!!!
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Oh and I'm 28 and FH is 31- so that's another reason why we don't want to wait too long to start trying. I'd like to have a few (I say that now but let's see.. lol ).
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FH wants one so bad that I have to be extra careful that it doesn't happen before the wedding. I am almost certain that we will be working on it the night of the wedding (if we're not too tired)!
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I am all for having a baby, I just don't want someone to expect and plan me to have one right away. FH and I have also not lived together, and I would enjoy at least 6 months of just us. We would love to go to Spain for our first anniversary, but if a baby comes first thats ok too!
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preggo as we speak!! and expecting a girl!
CONGRATS!!!!
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waiting!!! I will be married at 23 yrs old. So I definitely have time. Plus I am in my Masters for Education and want to be able to finish in 09 and get a teaching job. I would really love tenure before having a child. but I will already be 24 when I graduate and another 3 years to wait to try to have a kid so I can have tenure will put me at 27 and I just hope I can concieve easily because I want 1 or 2 by the time I am 30. I want to be done with having kids at 35 haha.
You sound like me! Except I will be 31 when I get married, so having 1 or 2 by 30 isn't happening for me. I do want to be done by 35 ... we are moving to NH in fall of 2009, so I think we would start trying soon after moving ... have to think about getting maternity leave though, so I may have to wait a while to make sure I am working 1 yr before going out on leave - i think most places require that ... but i hope to have a baby within 3 years of getting married (would be better if i had twins, i could be done!)
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Were going to wait about 1 year or so. We want to enjoy our time as newlyweds! We talk about having kids all the time though. SO if it just happends we won't be upset.
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We are seeing a fertility specialist next month due to many a problem on my part...and trying right away
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Well, I'm getting married later this month, and we are probably going to start trying in August/Sept. b/c my sister is getting married in August and I don't want to be pregnant for her wedding b/c I'm the MOH.
I want to start trying pretty soon but FH wants to wait a while. I told him I would like to have one by the time im 30 (ill be 27 when we get married), so he said he already knows what hes going to get me for my 29th birthday. I was thinking of getting him liquored up and jumping him on the HM but you bring up a good point. My sister is getting married summer of 09 and i dont want to be pregnant or with baby. I want to help her plan everything so I guess holding off is a good idea.
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We want to wait a pretty long time, maybe even five years
apparently our families think this is somehow their business and we have been told to 'stop being silly' and we should 'not want to be old parents'
whatever. since when is 30 old? and so THEY were young parents and their kids are grown now - i dont see them gallavanting off every weekend and traveling the world.
