Spinoff to going away without FH...

i have a feeling for me it might be different...since FH is stationed on the other side of the country he really doesnt even know where i am if i dont tell him...of course i tell him where i am...and not out of him not trusting me i just tell him everything and mostly its because i like to tlak to him alot haha and i am always telling him- oh i am at the mall or oh i am running to the food store haha i guess its what happens when all you do is chat all day instead of actually seeing each other

but since he isnt home we both dont care at all if we go away (like he went to Vegas with 3 guys 2 weeks ago for a weekend cause they were bored- they are stationed in San Diego so its close) and for my bday in Oct I went to AC with my girlfriends...we dont care and we also know that we dont get to spend our time with each other so why not enjoy ourselves and have great company...but we dont go out all the time either cause i def like to be a homebody haha

but when he comes home for good in July of 08 I have a feeling the first couple months will def be dedicated to just us 2 and not too much of our time will be spent seperated with just me and my girlfriends and him and his guy friends (of course i will have girls nights) but weekend getaways prob not for a little bit because after not seeing him for a year and never spending more than 2 weeks with him throuhgout our whole relationship we will def need some catching up time!!!!!

But after a few months is will def go back to normal and we will have our chances to have weekend getaways without each other and stuff...

yea he lets me go away with out him

id let him go away with out me...

some places we both agree we dont want eachother to do without the other but other than that we are cool with it but we always ask

'Would you mind if I went away ____' ?

thats about it

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Posted by ant n tilde

I dont think that it is always about trusting the person. For example, Fh wouldnt want me to go to a spring break type place bc he is disgusted by how people act there and would not want me around that - especially if i will be drinking and possibly put myself in a dangerous situation

Also - we never went away without each other and I am fine with that - especially now that I have a limited number of days off from work, i would rather save them ( and my $$$) for a nice long romantic vacation with him.

If you knew us, and our personalities - you would get it more. . .we are just homebodies in general

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ditto, especially b/c of the vacay days situation - I'd do more of a long weekend without him. It's never come up in our relationship though.