St.Joseph's in babylon girls!!!! (anyone getting married in a church)

ok so im having a terible time with the church im supposed to get married in... thank goodness my FH, parents and FILs are all behind me in my feelings... if you want to know how the first too meetins went ill be more then happy to share just saving some time... so here are my ?s'

How is pre-cana/FOCUS???

Do you enjoy going???

Does it make you feel like your being JUDGED??

How often do you go??

THANK YOU!!!!!