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How do you ladies feel about adultery? I know we all hate it but god-forbid if this were to happen during you marriage would you forgive and forget or would it be over? Does FH feel the same as you do? I know this is a different type of question but I feel as though we play it safe on this board, I just want to know everyone's true feelings.
I'll go first. I HATE cheaters and liars. FH knows that if he ever did, he'd be gone. He feels as strongly as I do. He said if I ever cheated then he would leave me. I don't blame him! I look forward to being with him for the rest of my life. However, who knows what could happen? I don't want to sound judgamental before I even get hitched because I really don't have any experience yet....
i'd divorce him. knowing me & the way i am i would never trust him again let alone be able to sleep with him again. i'm not really sure how he feels. we don't really talk about this cause we're both secure enough to know we don't have anything to worry about but i would asume that he feels the same way.
I would never be able to trust him again! We were talking about this last night one of his friends FW cheated on him. I said that is completely unacceptable! I wouldn't have it!
Both FH and I agree that if cheating/adultery occurs the relationship is completely over. I truly feel this will never happen between us but if it does...we both know what the outcome will be. I think this was a great question!
I HATE cheaters!! Don't even get me stared!! Most do not know but I was previously engaged, getting married in 06...And I called off the wedding about 7 months before cause he was cheating with a 19 year old!! ( I was 27 at the timeand he was 26).....So I feel very strongly about being faithful.....Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
Yea, I am with you guys- I'd get a divorce right away bit like Lamanita says- it's hard to tell. I know a few people who went through this- some worked it out for the kids- other's got divorced... So, who knows. I am big on trust. So, again- I couldn't deal with that. I would be extremely paranoid.
I would just get up and walk out.... FH knows this.
Posted by MrsShuttles
Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
Posted by MrsShuttles
I HATE cheaters!! Don't even get me stared!! Most do not know but I was previously engaged, getting married in 06...And I called off the wedding about 7 months before cause he was cheating with a 19 year old!! ( I was 27 at the timeand he was 26).....So I feel very strongly about being faithful.....Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
I would walk out in a split second. No ifs, and sor buts and no difference if kids were involved. I would hope he would do the same.
Posted by MrsShuttles
I HATE cheaters!! Don't even get me stared!! Most do not know but I was previously engaged, getting married in 06...And I called off the wedding about 7 months before cause he was cheating with a 19 year old!! ( I was 27 at the timeand he was 26).....So I feel very strongly about being faithful.....Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
Posted by MrsShuttles
I HATE cheaters!! Don't even get me stared!! Most do not know but I was previously engaged, getting married in 06...And I called off the wedding about 7 months before cause he was cheating with a 19 year old!! ( I was 27 at the timeand he was 26).....So I feel very strongly about being faithful.....Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
Posted by cedesnyc
There will be no cheating forgiveness for either party. I don't want to say never
Just hope that God blesses us wiht a long, healthy, happy and faithful marriage
Posted by flairforfashion
Posted by MrsShuttles
I HATE cheaters!! Don't even get me stared!! Most do not know but I was previously engaged, getting married in 06...And I called off the wedding about 7 months before cause he was cheating with a 19 year old!! ( I was 27 at the timeand he was 26).....So I feel very strongly about being faithful.....Did anyone hear Z100 this morning?? There was a lady who dated married men and was proud of it!! BEE-OTCH!!!!
I don't understand why some women LOVE married men. I have a friend who dates married men and I don't get it. I think it's terrible to even do that and question her morality but I think it's linked to self esteem issues in the end. Either way though- women who do that are BIOTCHES!
