Do you ladies let your guys go to these? Its never been an issue before, but i found out that D/H brother is setting up a night for them all to go to one, and its not a bachelor party or anything, i wasnt so sure how to react when he tells me.. If he even does...
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It doesn't matter to me as long as you 1.. don't go all the time 2. Tell me that you are going...
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must say FI is not a big fan so I don't have to worry at all.
Ronnie&Theresa
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I have been to a few..
I have been to Bikini bars in Jersey bc I had friend who worked there..
Its all about Trust..
And Why would Ron go anyway .. He has me at home and I always am bigger !
I think if he wants to go.. Go with him.. Bet your ass I wouldn't want no girl rubbing her butt on Ron's lap.. Before me is FINE now that he is with me its NOT! and he doesn't care
MichelleW
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My hubby is not a big fan of them either, but goes on occasssion. I really don't mind him going, I get all the rewards when he comes home.
I really don't care for the back room in the bar type parties becuase you know alot of the boys don't behave
As others have said before it amounts to the trust you have in them
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I don’t mind it too much. I don’t like it but I rather he tell me the truth than lie and I end up finding out later on, which is 10x worse. FH only goes when there is a bachelor party going on. While we have been together he has been to a couple so far and he has told me what has happened. He has had lap dances and what am I supposed to do talk till I am blue in the face for him NOT to do these things? It would bother me if he went once a month or more. But if its to celebrate a special occasion I don’t see anything wrong with it when I will turn around and go somewhere similar. Plus he is coming home to me. That is all that matters. I have been to Scores and the only reason I was there was b/c I was wasted. It was a very strange experience but I will say that strip clubs are not like you see in the movies. I saw a couple of men get escorted out b/c they touched one of the females.
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I must admit I absolutely hate it. DH only goes if its a friends party and that is where they are all going. But the whole idea makes me sick especially because all of his friends are total dirtbags. Last party they didnt even go to a club, they had the girls come to them, and you can imagine what went on in that house.