Strippers baby!

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 05:55 PM

Strippers baby!

okay i have a question for you all!!! im bored and have nothing to do this friday night lol..can you tell??

I have read on the other boards that some girls wrote their guys 'dont like strippers' 'its not their thing' 'they dont want strippers at their bach party'

just asking, do you guys realy believe them? dont want to start drama (please!) but just curious because heres my story....

FH has two of his best friends getting married, one this month, one in feb, they did a joint bach party. they BOTH told their fiances, 'strippers are not my thing, i hate strippers, theyre nasty etc etc etc etc'...and guess what, FH and his friends got them strippers, why? because the guys said 'you better get us strippers!!!' i actually helped do the phone calls looking for the strippers, and FH told me all the nasty things they did to the 2 guys because im comfortable with FH seeing strippers and i know he'll have them at his bach party too.....BUT my questions still stands....

who has a problem with FH having strippers at their bach party, why or why not?
and if they say that they dont like them or its not their thing...do you really believe them???
what guy doesnt like a naked girl?? lol

these girls will swearrrrr their men dont like them ,and wouldnt want that at their party, but lo and behold they asked for the strippers, and kept it from their fiances so they wouldnt kill them.

eta: anyone answer not only 09 brides!

Princesa Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:03 PM

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First of all let me start by saying I don't mind if my FH has strippers at his bach party and I know he is going to have them. And I'm with you most men at least 99% are going to have strippers whether they admit it or not. And of course there are going to be people who will say that Their FH will never have a stripper, etc & guess what they are just very nieve to the real world. This is my personal onpinion & I don't mean to offend anyone. But I do have 4 brothers and Fh has 5 Brothers and all of them have friends and I too have seen it happen.

HLS1981 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:04 PM

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Haha, I met my fiance at a wedding and guess who was his date...a stripper!

I really dont care if he goes to a strip club or not, Im secure with my relationship. Heck Im like you Id even help him find one for his buddy.

I know who he is coming home to at night.

P.S. Obvioulsy he met me and ditched the stripper.

Princesa Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:06 PM

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Pretty much. A guy knows what he wants so that is the attitue that I have too. I know he is coming home to me at the end of the night.

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:07 PM

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Posted by Princesa

First of all let me start by saying I don't mind if my FH has strippers at his bach party and I know he is going to have them. And I'm with you most men at least 99% are going to have strippers whether they admit it or not. And of course there are going to be people who will say that Their FH will never have a stripper, etc & guess what they are just very nieve to the real world. This is my personal onpinion & I don't mean to offend anyone. But I do have 4 brothers and Fh has 5 Brothers and all of them have friends and I too have seen it happen.

yea i helped look because the lfirst one they were suppose to get bailed, so the day before i had to look around and call every girls i know to see who knows girls...and yeah a few knew numbers lol

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:08 PM

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omg i have 2 brothers, and a dad whos iike them , lol...and i know even if a friend of theires said i dont want one they would def. get like 2 because of that!!

Walkintomymind Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:14 PM

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i don't care if FH has strippers.

It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home!

FH doesn't want strippers, he wants to go on a fishing trip. I had actually encouraged him to get strippers because I think it would be funny to hear about later! He said he did all that in college and just wants to spend time with everyone...his brother may get one anyway!! I even thought about sending one!

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:18 PM

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Posted by Walkintomymind

i don't care if you FH has strippers.

It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home!

FH doesn't want strippers, he wants to go on a fishing trip. I had actually encouraged him to get strippers because I think it would be funny to hear about later! He said he did all that in college and just wants to spend time with everyone...his brother may get one anyway!! I even thought about sending one!

i want to send FH a midget stripper before the real one comes lol i think thatll be funny, wish i could see that one though

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:27 PM

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omg more then 60 views and only a few responses.........................come on ladiessss!! lol

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:43 PM

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haha... i don't care if my fh has strippers...actually i expect him to have strippers !!! hahaha

we always tell each other we can look all we want but never touch...

GT143EA Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:50 PM

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FH always says he doesnt care for strippers but I think its only because he doesnt want to spoend the money on strippers. If his boys got him strippers I think he would be fine with it.
I don't care if he goes to a strip club but I dont want strippers in my house

geegee827 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:55 PM

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I tell him all the time, if he wants strippers, have 'em. What's the big deal? He's not in love with and marrying one!

Reesy Posted: Oct 24, 2008 06:55 PM

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FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 07:00 PM

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Posted by Reesy

FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....

omg so your FH will probably be like one of the guys, my FH told me the girl gave him a vibrator to do you know what and the guy sat there like ummm i dunno what to do, my FH said he yelled....press that button it makes it vibrate and the other button makes it move in circles....im like oh great now everyone knows it was the same one your fiance has at home, if you know how the buttons work without even looking at it!! lol

dana1206 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 07:30 PM

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The night before our first date, FH had 3 strippers in our house (was obviously only his house at the time) for his friend's bachelor party. I know it's going to happen and I don't care. He has mentioned that he wants to do a golf weekend though, so if anything I'm sure they'll just go to a strip club.

jayepyt Posted: Oct 24, 2008 08:11 PM

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Posted by meli722

Posted by Reesy

FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....

omg so your FH will probably be like one of the guys, my FH told me the girl gave him a vibrator to do you know what and the guy sat there like ummm i dunno what to do, my FH said he yelled....press that button it makes it vibrate and the other button makes it move in circles....im like oh great now everyone knows it was the same one your fiance has at home, if you know how the buttons work without even looking at it!! lol

Karsav7096 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 08:35 PM

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before me my FH dated mostly strippers and I am the furthest thing from a stripper body wise. We have decided to do a joint party and go with our friends to a few strip clubs. I think it's funny watching my man get a lap dance cause I know he is going home with me and not them.

Also I bartended at many BP so I know what REALLY goes on there and it is pretty damn disgusting

So I would much rather be by my man side when she shakes her thang on him!!

MrsList09 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 08:57 PM

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FH has been to New Orleans a bunch of times and likes to go to the strip clubs down there and talk to the strippers and get their stories. Obviously he's enjoying the view during the conversation but he's interested in what make people tick and strippers have interesting stories. He doesn't go to them up here becuase apparently they're all aggressive and dont' speak English. So I don't care if he has strippers. I told him as long as he doesn't start comparing me to strippers (why don't you do this, look like that, etc.), I don't care.

JKFris09 Posted: Oct 24, 2008 09:13 PM

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FH says he doesnt and I know he doesnt care for them, He was at his brothers's bach party a while ago and him and a friend hung out in the kitchen all night because they thought the rest of the guys looked like idiots. My FH doesnt drink either, it's not for us, we dont go to bars, clubs or anything. For him (and me) that stuff is private, he wont discuss any of that stuff with anyone and gets mad at me if I talk to anyone about it. So I dont agree when it's said that all guys would want strippers even if they say no. Some maybe most I'm sure it's the case but not everyone. And I'm not naive about it, I just know the kind of person he is, he's very private and is not ok with anything like that.