okay i have a question for you all!!! im bored and have nothing to do this friday night lol..can you tell??
I have read on the other boards that some girls wrote their guys 'dont like strippers' 'its not their thing' 'they dont want strippers at their bach party'
just asking, do you guys realy believe them? dont want to start drama (please!) but just curious because heres my story....
FH has two of his best friends getting married, one this month, one in feb, they did a joint bach party. they BOTH told their fiances, 'strippers are not my thing, i hate strippers, theyre nasty etc etc etc etc'...and guess what, FH and his friends got them strippers, why? because the guys said 'you better get us strippers!!!' i actually helped do the phone calls looking for the strippers, and FH told me all the nasty things they did to the 2 guys because im comfortable with FH seeing strippers and i know he'll have them at his bach party too.....BUT my questions still stands....
who has a problem with FH having strippers at their bach party, why or why not? and if they say that they dont like them or its not their thing...do you really believe them??? what guy doesnt like a naked girl?? lol
these girls will swearrrrr their men dont like them ,and wouldnt want that at their party, but lo and behold they asked for the strippers, and kept it from their fiances so they wouldnt kill them.
eta: anyone answer not only 09 brides!
PoppedInASnap
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
fh actually walked out of a bach party because there were strippers. He thinks women shouldnt degrade themselves and have men oogling over them like that...
ME, i couldn't care less! I say its their body whatever they want to do with it they can.
But fh already made a huge deal that if they get him onetheir out of the bridal party
Future Mrs Roo
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
I dont care if FH has strippers at his batchelor party b/c he goes to strip clubs now and I will be having them at my parrty!! no seriously, it doesnt bother me at all.
gip32680
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
It doesn't bother me at all either. I always tell FH whenever he goes to a bach party, 'have fun but DON'T COME HOME WITH GLITTER ON YOUR FACE!!!' that's my only rule. I completely trust my FH so i have nothing to worry about.
beram63
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
i have a problem with strippers. it's not so much the naked dancing but the grinding and other disgusting things they do when they come to the house FH says he doesn't like them. i think it's lip service to make me feel better. nevertheless, there won't be any strippers at either BP. i know his friends, they know my wishes, and i trust FH to keep his word.
MrsDtoBe09
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
Posted by meli722
Posted by Reesy
FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....
omg so your FH will probably be like one of the guys, my FH told me the girl gave him a vibrator to do you know what and the guy sat there like ummm i dunno what to do, my FH said he yelled....press that button it makes it vibrate and the other button makes it move in circles....im like oh great now everyone knows it was the same one your fiance has at home, if you know how the buttons work without even looking at it!! lol
To me, this is extremely disturbing. If my fh was using a vibrator on a stripper to get her off I dont think I could marry him. It's one thing to look at a stripper but to use a vibrator on a person is to engage in a sexual act and I would DEFINITELY count that as cheating.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Posted by meli722
Posted by Reesy
FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....
omg so your FH will probably be like one of the guys, my FH told me the girl gave him a vibrator to do you know what and the guy sat there like ummm i dunno what to do, my FH said he yelled....press that button it makes it vibrate and the other button makes it move in circles....im like oh great now everyone knows it was the same one your fiance has at home, if you know how the buttons work without even looking at it!! lol
To me, this is extremely disturbing. If my fh was using a vibrator on a stripper to get her off I dont think I could marry him. It's one thing to look at a stripper but to use a vibrator on a person is to engage in a sexual act and I would DEFINITELY count that as cheating.
id like to know what kind of nasty asss party your Fh went to that this kinda stuff was going on... that would def be cheating in my book... and it is really disturbing that some girls on here dont feel the same way
Brila09
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Posted by meli722
Posted by Reesy
FH HAS NEVER SEEN A STRIPPER PERFORM AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE TO, AND I DOUBT THEY WILL BE AT HIS BP BUT IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT IF THEY WERE....IF HE DOES HE'S SO SHY HE'LL PROBABLY BE LOOKING DOWN MOST OF THE TIME, LOL.....
omg so your FH will probably be like one of the guys, my FH told me the girl gave him a vibrator to do you know what and the guy sat there like ummm i dunno what to do, my FH said he yelled....press that button it makes it vibrate and the other button makes it move in circles....im like oh great now everyone knows it was the same one your fiance has at home, if you know how the buttons work without even looking at it!! lol
To me, this is extremely disturbing. If my fh was using a vibrator on a stripper to get her off I dont think I could marry him. It's one thing to look at a stripper but to use a vibrator on a person is to engage in a sexual act and I would DEFINITELY count that as cheating.
id like to know what kind of nasty asss party your Fh went to that this kinda stuff was going on... that would def be cheating in my book... and it is really disturbing that some girls on here dont feel the same way
ITA. From what I have heard crazier stuff goes on at private parties like in hotel rooms than at a club, but either way I'm not cool with the idea. I dont want some other girl gyrating on my man. My FH told me that at one of his bachelor parties he attended for a friend the guy got so turned on that when the stripper was grinding on his crotch he came in his pants. After FH shared that with me we had a discussion about why I have such a hard time with it. I felt like in his friends case, it was almost cheating. I flipped the table and asked FH if I was at a club and lets just say the stripper had a hard on and was grinding up on me and I came, would he consider it cheating? He did.
Its just something that I dont want me or my FH engaging in. We have an agreement and he is just as passionate about it as I am. We both don't like the idea of strippers at our parties or in general. We're both jealous s.o.b's and want each other all to ourselves.
ANT-N-BON-09
Posted:
Member since
Re: Strippers baby!
So....my ex brought me to some bach paries. I know it sounds wierd but the other guys didnt seem to care for some reason. One was at a bar...and oh boy, these girls were nasty!! They did things to eachother i couldnt even feel comfortable typing out! And there was all the guys laughing and cheering. I went to a few more, and they were all like that!. Nonetheless, some ended up in the bathroom with the girls by the end of the night.Fh is a cop, and has had to attend many bach parties, and he didnt get a word out of me for a week! I do not and will not agree to them cause i guess i have been spoiled in that department. He is the last, and i mean last out of all his friends and co workers to get married, and i know...hes gonna have to be 'one of the guys' and have strippers. Well....he better send me out of the country, CAUSE I WONT ALLOW IT. I dont mind if he goes to a strip club....go ahead, waste ur money...but hotel rooms, shutting down a bar, etc, not for a sec! Oh...and one story to add on...fh was the best man for his good friend, and planned it at a club where they have a shower in the middle of the dance floor. Fh's friend owns the club, they shut the whole thing down and had two or three strippers. Nonetheless, he didnt tell me he planned this until two days before, just thinking that he sat in a room planning this whole thing makes me sick. Now fh came home that night and lied saying he was the only idiot who didnt get a lap dance, WELL....as fh went to work the next night, i did laundry. Yep, makeup all over his jeans. i was in tears for days.
