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SWR - What do you consider cheating

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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almost anything. kissing!!! my FH hasn't (except for 1 bachelor party) gone to s strip club but getting a lap dance is a big NO NO with me!!!!

MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn

almost anything. kissing!!! my FH hasn't (except for 1 bachelor party) gone to s strip club but getting a lap dance is a big NO NO with me!!!!



see i'm not sure about how i feel about lap dances. i mean i've been to those male strip shows...and i think sometimes they are rather naughty...and i would hate to be a hypocrite and tell my man he can't go to the strip clubs. (he's only gone a few times and isn't the hugest fan--but i know his boys will want to take him for the bachelor party)

BUT --i don't like the idea that some chick is rubbing her junk all over my FH's crotch and trying to give him a little 'rise'...if you know what i mean.

so i'm tossed up about that strip club thing!
JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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My own personal rule is that if I wouldn't do it in front of FH, that's cheating for me, but I wouldn't necessarily say that's absolute for all relationships. I am stricter with myself than I am with others.

alwaysz22 Posted:

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Posted by weddingbunny


Posted by smurray
You hit it on the dot. If you think I'm going to be mad, DON'T DO IT



Exactly!

My rule is that if you can't tell me about it, then you shouldn't be doing it.

'Can't tell me' includes things that would basically make me flip out if you did tell me.

That's the rule I'm going with for the Bachelor party as well - you need to be able to tell me about it without it upsetting me. If you can't do that, you shouldn't be doing it. He knows what that means, and his friends know what that means. I trust him to stick to that, and I know his friends will too. (although I don't think some of his friends realize exactly how much he's told me about his pre-me days....)



you couldn't have put it better
anything that is sneaky is wrong in my book
most people know if they are cheating, they just refuse to believe it
STBH Posted:

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Sex def cheating Kissing def cheating and talking to them everyday also cheating any time that is taken away from me is cheating lol

Missladybug15 Posted:

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I agree with everyone, to me, cheating is doing something with another person that you would do with your significant other

Mrs. Powell Posted:

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Posted by STBH

Sex def cheating Kissing def cheating and talking to them everyday also cheating any time that is taken away from me is cheating lol



I so agree with upon any time that is taken away from me.
Athee07 Posted:

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kissing and beyond

lisaslove Posted:

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Posted by Lissy3077

i agree, touching, kissing, sex and going on dates and lying about it, its cheating IMO.



i agree
JazzyT Posted:

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Posted by enjft

I also think the worse thing you can do to me is have a child outside of the marriage



O evidence that you a cheater...i can't look past that one either.

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