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Tension on LIW??

AS Posted:

Tension on LIW??

Does anyone else feel the tension on here or is it just me. There is over 2500 people on the site and usually by this time the 08 board is pumping. I think there are some people holding back on the posting lately, I wonder why???

boky17 Posted:

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seriously, where is everyone?? the is the slowest week everrrrrrrrr...

SB7308 Posted:

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Maybe the raunchiness scared them?
yelley77 Posted:

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I was thinking the same thing!!! The truth is, it's all re-posts. I'm lazy and only feel like answering certain questions once, ya know? Like Where do you work? where did you get engaged, etc.

I'm not trying to be b!tchy... I'm really just lazy, lol
kristi313 Posted:

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i think we're all getting a little wedding burnt out. how many times can you post about flowers,shoes, invites, std's etc. if you look at the raunch threads that where all the action is!

AS Posted:

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Maybe , hahahaha. I could understand if there are 100 people on but 2400 and no one is posting lurkers
Espo22 Posted:

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I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol
yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by MPAS

Maybe , hahahaha. I could understand if there are 100 people on but 2400 and no one is posting lurkers





Should we say hi to them?
SoVic08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol



aww mama, hope you cheer up :heart
yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol



I'm sorry you've been down. I know there is nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better, but just know us LIW girls are thinking about you.

Here are some for you. Hope you feel better soon.
dajc23 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

I was thinking the same thing!!! The truth is, it's all re-posts. I'm lazy and only feel like answering certain questions once, ya know? Like Where do you work? where did you get engaged, etc.

I'm not trying to be b!tchy... I'm really just lazy, lol



Exactly..same goes to for me. I'll even answer the same question like 3 or 4 times..but after that. I just hate repeating myself. Before I ask any questions, I alwayssssss do a search to see if it was ever asked before or to see what peoples feedback was on a certain vendor etc. I hate asking the same questions that someone might have asked just a few hours before me!! Not being rude, just feel that way
AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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Awww, feel better! Everyone misses you.

And to the rest of you, here's my tension - WHAT IS THIS SHOWER everyone is talking about? I WAS NOT INVITED. Ha ha. But really, what was this some sort of LIW sponsored shower?? Maybe I can go next year, if invited.


Posted by Espo22

I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol

AS Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol



The shower thing was a joke but Im sooo sorry to hear that youre dealing with serious issues. I hope its not your health bec I remember you saying something with your appendix. IF you ever need to talk you can always FM me , feel better babe , we miss you!!!!
teenigrrl Posted:

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I'm trying very hard to make it to 1000 posts cause I love free stuff, but work has been very busy for me lately, and that's really the only time I have to post. And I'm lazy too!

DNS91308 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

I haven't been on much so dont know if there is tension

I am personally dealing with some serious personal issues in my life, nothing to do with LIW so thats why I haven't been on much. Not really in the mood to talk about wedding things such as flowers, veil, shoes, dj or whatever it might be...i come on here when its slow at work but the past few days i am just too down to really sit and have normal conversations, i cant even talk to other ppl in my life such as friends and family about regular normal stuff.

Plus for many ppl this time of year they get alot more busy at work, thats another thing i have been more busy too.

If there was problems at the shower that would've come out soon after lol




Sorry to hear you are going through a rough patch. You are such a positive and happy presence on LIW, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

snwb08 Posted:

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i feel like when I post wedding related stuff i don't get many replies so it's kind of pointless. I know a lot of girls have been engaged longer and have this stuff way planned out, but i only booked major stuff and am procrastinating on the little things like flowers, limos, etc. - I sometimes want to post flower questions (i am clueless) but i don't b/c others said people are sick of it and when i do i don't get a lot of responses anyway. more people tend to respond to NWR stuff.

Espo - whatever it is I hope it gets better soon. I for one miss your helpful advice I still need a good eyebrow wax person!! jk
DNS91308 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

I was thinking the same thing!!! The truth is, it's all re-posts. I'm lazy and only feel like answering certain questions once, ya know? Like Where do you work? where did you get engaged, etc.

I'm not trying to be b!tchy... I'm really just lazy, lol



I hear you i have only been on the website for a little, but sometimes it gets redundant.

I just like coming on and chatting with you ladies and if i pick up a good wedding tip or two then
Espo22 Posted:

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awwww thank you so much ladies so sweet of you. I wrote it to explain why im not on and that sometimes others might have the same reasons, kinda didnt realize i was even putting it out there lol since ive been so closed off with all this but i appreciate it.
AS Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

i feel like when I post wedding related stuff i don't get many replies so it's kind of pointless. I know a lot of girls have been engaged longer and have this stuff way planned out, but i only booked major stuff and am procrastinating on the little things like flowers, limos, etc. - I sometimes want to post flower questions (i am clueless) but i don't b/c others said people are sick of it and when i do i don't get a lot of responses anyway. more people tend to respond to NWR stuff.




This is a wedd website, you should post about flowers, limos anything you want to ask. I try to help and reply to everyone when Im not busy at work. Post away babe!!!!!!!!!!!
TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

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Posted by blurgirlny

Awww, feel better! Everyone misses you.

And to the rest of you, here's my tension - WHAT IS THIS SHOWER everyone is talking about? I WAS NOT INVITED. Ha ha. But really, what was this some sort of LIW sponsored shower?? Maybe I can go next year, if invited.




Blurgirlny, the shower was a shower for all girls getting married in 08 .. planning started in the summer and it was held on 10/5 ... may have happened before you joined / posted a lot? Everyone needed to RSVP in mid September.

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