I think it has to be at least three months before or after their wedding so that it wont be too hard for the family. Since this date was really important to you though i would discuss it with the bride and groom and with your immediate family and see what they have to say.
kabo0831
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i dont think that would be a good idea, they might think that you are stealing there thunder.
bonnieanneryan
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i would sit down with them. obviously you cant come off or make it seem that you want them to change their date, but discuss the dilemma and your reaoning for picking that date. Maybe they will be understanding and you all can work something out
BTW... out of curiousty..who got engaged first?
they got engaged first and announced their date first, so i'd say that an august 2009 wedding is rightfully theirs. FH is pretty certain that he wants to keep the date and change the year. we aren't even going to mention it to the b&g so that they don't think twice about their special day.
thanks for all your help girls!! i guess i'm not an 09 bride anymore oh well LOL
