Hey girls! Okay, so I was going through some MAJOR drama with my MOH. I didn't really post about it because I wasn't 100% on how I wanted to handle the situation. Well, long story short (very short), I decided to replace her, both as a friend and MOH. So, I upped my girl who is so awesome and like a sister to MOH and asked another friend who I should've asked to start with (in my newbie pre-LIW phase, I didn't know that married ladies could be BMs!!), and I really, really feel like I have the best BP on earth. All these girls are so awesome and my new (and improved) MOH is so into helping plan every aspect of the wedding. I'm so happy, it's not even funny. So, this is my Friend Appreciation post Feel free to join in! Who is in your BP/life that's great? Let us all know!
Pookiesangel
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My Best friend and MOH is my little sister, it's weird when we were younger we used to hate each other, and now we are inseprateable.. She has helped me just by listening to all my craziness, from my million and one changes (i've changed my wedding colors about 5 times already) to being the best co-pilot on my many car adventures..(i just started driving six months ago..lol
Sweetpea130000
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My MOH/Aunt has also been great! She has found dresses for the BMs online, gone on trips to look at gowns and is keeping me sane from my mom.
YEAH to good BPs!!!
ETA: we also used to hate either other when we were young, glad to see that getting older stopped that!
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Pretty much every single one of my girls mean so much to me and I know in return they will do their part for me. Since I have been in about 3 wedding with 2 more on the way I have come to see how the bridal party can do SO much and yet DO nothing for the bride. I made sure my decision on my BP was my closest and best friends and they all sure are! I love them all!
February05
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awwww thats awesome, Jennie! Im glad that everything worked out in the end!!!
I dont have a specific story or anything, and i really havent asked my BMs for anything or really any help (im saving up all my BM points for the few weeks that preceed my wedding ), but i know that every one of them is amazing, and if i called up ANY one of them right now, no matter where they were or what they were doing, they would drop it and come right over if i needed them--- and Thats why theyre my Bridesmaids
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We haven't officially settled on a complete BP but my sister will be my MOH...we're very opposite in every way and there were times (and still are) when we just didn't get along...it just wouldn't seem right to not have her as my moh...when it comes down to it she is my only sister and really my true best friend...who else would be able to put up with my constant inability to make a decision...lol I love you La...
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my best friend in the world is my younger brother and when deciding on my bridal party i wanted to have the closest people in my life with me on my special day. i wanted people i know i wwould always be close with so it was not in a choice that my brother would be my man of honor. i also had his girlfriend who was so into helping and planning i was so thank ful for her and i know they will be getting married someday. my two best friends who were great and when i stressed they were right there for me. i rounded it out with my two sisters one of which was incredible with listening to me and being my sounding board. i was really lucky
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My MOH/cousin has been AWESOME!!!! She is busy planning for her own wedding which is this July,but she is always there to listen and went with me to go shopping for my dress. She even offered to go with me to meet vendors if FH wasn't available b/c she knows he has a crazy work schedule, but I didn't have to bother her. She's just been great. I could not ask for more out of a MOH
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I have a LOT of drama with my MOH, but I love her and she's my future sister in law...its difficult sometimes b/c I wish now that I had asked my BF, Ro. But she is in the wediding and knows how I feel and she's been like a surrogate MOH and has helped me with everything. She's actually getting married 6 weeks after me! talk about STRESSFUL!!!!!
girlygrl33
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Posted by tonia1001
I have a LOT of drama with my MOH, but I love her and she's my future sister in law...its difficult sometimes b/c I wish now that I had asked my BF, Ro. But she is in the wediding and knows how I feel and she's been like a surrogate MOH and has helped me with everything. She's actually getting married 6 weeks after me! talk about STRESSFUL!!!!!
boy do I know what thats like, drama from one of my MOH wish I asked my BF but shes also in it and it taking place of, thank goodness for them right!!
