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The inside of the Invitation?

gettinghizitched Posted:

The inside of the Invitation?

What should the inside of the invitation say since me and FH are paying for the wedding?

gettinghizitched Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

Anyone!
CAD0608 Posted:

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I would say it should say something like this:

Emma Margaret Johnson
and Jack Warren Smith
request the honour of your presence
at their marriage
on Saturday, the sixth of June
two thousand and nine
at five o'clock in the evening
St. Michael's Church
Orland Park, Illinois

or

Emma Margaret Johnson
and Jack Warren Smith
request the pleasure of your company
in celebrating their union of marriage
on Saturday, the sixth of June
two thousand and nine
at five o'clock in the evening
St. Michael's Church
Orland Park, Illinois

or

Emma Margaret Johnson
and Jack Warren Smith
invite you to join them
in celebrating their marriage
on Saturday, the sixth of June
two thousand and nine
at five o'clock in the evening
St. Michael's Church
Orland Park, Illinois

Hope this helps




gettinghizitched Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

It helps a little. But I still want to include both of our parents names

CAD0608 Posted:

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are either of your parents contributing???

CAD0608 Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

How about this

Emma Margaret Johnson
and Jack Warren Smith
along with their parents
request the honour of your presence
at their marriage
on Saturday, the sixth of June
two thousand and nine
at five o'clock in the evening
St. Michael's Church
Orland Park, Illinois
gettinghizitched Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?


Posted by CAD0608

are either of your parents contributing???



No!
CAD0608 Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

To be honest if they arent contributing then there really isnt a proper way to add them in. At least i havent seen one as of yet



Edit**** If you make church programs you can include a page thanking them
gettinghizitched Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

Are you sure b/c I think i've seen it before. I think that my parents and his parents should be on the invite.

emcheung Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

neither of our parents are contributing but we wrote:

Together with their parents
yada yada
and yada yada
request the honor of your presence
etc....

if you want to do it formally you can write out their full names.
joshisgirl Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

i know it's technically supposed to be whoever pays is the one who's supposed to be listed first, but i always wondered y it matters? even though my parents didn't pay for it, we put that are requesting the honor..., and then for mu husband;s side, we put that his parents were requesting the honor... ( i know it's weird but we had two separate invitations, apparently it's something indian :) )

eta: i like emcheung's idea
SusiBtoM Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

You can do whatever you want.

We paid for the bulk, with some help from DH's parents, but my dad didn't contribute anything. I didn't ask, he didn't offer. No big deal to me. No one has to know.
We wanted to honor our parents regardless of financial contribution. Being that Mike and I are older, we also wanted a bit more modern wording than the traditional.

our wording was

Susanne R.
and
Michael M.
together with their parents
Hubert R.
and
Elaine and John K.
invite you to share and celebrate
at their wedding
yada yada yada.
BunnyBears Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

i think i have seen it something like this:

Sally Smith
the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Smith
and
Joe John
the son of Mr and Mrs. John
request blah blah blah



joshisgirl Posted:

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sorry, posted twice

gettinghizitched Posted:

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Thanks girls for all your help!

snwb08 Posted:

Re: The inside of the Invitation?

we are paying, but we're doing

bride to be
and
groom to be
together with their families
request the honour of your presence etc. blah blah blah

i don't believe in etiquette or right or wrong in this case our parents and family have contributed in so many ways and we want to recognize them
melissankurt07 Posted:

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You can go to VERSEIT.COM There are a bunch of suggestions on how to word anything.....
gettinghizitched Posted:

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Thanks!!

JJC Posted:

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check this page out ladies...it has all the proper wording for invites and addressing...

http://www.southworth.com/page.php?id=127
PegaLega Posted:

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You can do whatever you want with the names, if they arent paying and you still want to put them on it you can.

You can do

Together with their parents
Jane Smith
and
John Doe
request the honor of your presence.....

Or you can put their names

Mr & mrs. XXX SMtih
Mr. & mrs XXX Doe
together with their children
Jane Smith
&
John Do
etc etc etc etc

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