the wedding is in 2 weeks and im not talking to the groom!

Original post by fitchc

Aug 19, 2008 05:45 AM

We had an arguement because i wanted to throw one of the groomsmen out since he tried to jeapordize our relationship aug 16th with a strip joint...im not talking to my groom since he doesnt want to cancel him out..i sent an email this morning canceling that groomsman
so the wedding may be off...what do you think girls im so upset that my fh is choosing his idiotic friend over me, he did not call me back yesterday...can you believe this?
im sorry but i must put my foot down and this is what i think is best to do....he hates seeing my fh getting hitched and has always been disrespectful to fh i want him out!
fh doesnt know i emailed him this morning

...i fell i have every right to be mad when we have been harrassed by this groomsmen for three yrs for being a couple and b/c fh does not want to go to clubs any more gm thinks that clubs are the only thing to do

so yes there i s more to the story plus they wanted him to get his last blow job and said they would wait outside his house until he came out they asked him twice in two weeks...the guy that gm hangs with aims to ruin virgins and ruin relationships...thats what type of guys gm hangs with and is influenced by

TheLadyJ Posted: Aug 19, 2008 05:39 PM

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Posted by fitchc

girls thank you here is the update fh cancelled that gm and i replaced him with someone good

So it looks like he REALLY is a pushover. I guess you can expect to be getting your way the rest of the marriage.

beram63 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 05:47 PM

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Posted by fitchc

girls thank you here is the update fh cancelled that gm and i replaced him with someone good

i'm glad you found some resolution and that FH stood up for you. it does sound like you guys have some relationship work to do though. i wish you the best

krislee316 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 07:10 PM

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U just said Fh gets walked on and needs a back bone yet U just bullied him so that U could get UR way very selfish of U!!!!!! I think U are the immature one and need to reevaluate ur relationship

kayla09 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 08:50 PM

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Are u nuts Your FH is just that your FH. Do you love him? trust him? If so don't worry about stupid things or stupid people. I'm sure that marriage will bring more issues than this. I think that you and your FH really need to sit down and talk. hope it works out for the best.

kbond06 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 10:48 PM

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Posted by fitchc

girls thank you here is the update fh cancelled that gm and i replaced him with someone good

wow that was a quick replacement ??

Sweets14 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 10:56 PM

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If fh keeps letting this guy in his life when he knows how much it upsets you, i think you need to replace the groom and not the groomsman. It's disrespect to u! He should've been the one emailing him. NOT YOU!!

Good Luck though! I do hope everything works out the best for you!!

WinterBride10 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 11:36 PM

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It looks like you worked it out...Que Sera Sera!

Have fun at your wedding!

sophisticat13 Posted: Aug 19, 2008 11:42 PM

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I wish you and your FH all the best....I also think that all the previous posters gave you some really good feedback about you, your FH and your relationship...
GL

fitchc Posted: Aug 19, 2008 11:56 PM

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thank you girls for all of the great feedback
it meant a lot to me. it really helped
and yea we may need to go to counseling to get fh stronger so that my personality doesnt take over