The wedding is off...

Original post by razz1031

May 07, 2004 08:18 AM

My suspicions were correct about him. He wasn't excited about the wedding because he felt the whole engagement was a mistake and after 4 years, he tells me NOW that he hasn't been happy in YEARS?! I had no clue. I'm angry because I'm such a fool. I saw signs here and there but I REALLY didn't think it was cause for alarm. He left me yesterday. I have nobody...my family is in Florida and it looks like that's where I might be going. I can't pay the rent by myself. I'm just so devastated....but at the same time I feel relieved. I've been divorced already. This could have been another failed marriage. I wish you all the best...you're a great group and I've SO enjoyed chatting with all of you. You'll all be beautiful brides!!!
Tania...

tourist Posted: May 07, 2004 09:16 AM

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Oh my goodness, so sorry to hear this. Moving to Florida might not be a bad a idea. You'll be close to your family, and if you will have trouble payignyour rent here, that's the last thing you need to worry about now.

hbradio Posted: May 07, 2004 09:36 AM

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I am so sorry....

aliciahelene Posted: May 07, 2004 09:39 AM

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Dont say you have nobody...you have us!!!! I have received so much wonderful support from everyone onhere..whenever you need to talk...know that we are all here for you!!!!
Im sorry you are going through this..I cant even imagine how scary it must be to have to move out of state now...but im so glad this happened before the wedding!!! Fm if ya ever just need to vent. If you wanted to stay in teh area..you could always post on nwr and see if anyoen knows anyone who needs a rommate!!!???

divabride Posted: May 07, 2004 09:39 AM

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Im sorry hon

agv Posted: May 07, 2004 09:39 AM

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I am so sorry. Try to remember that things do happen for a reason......

OctBride05 Posted: May 07, 2004 09:49 AM

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i'm so sorry

MrsBtoBe2005 Posted: May 07, 2004 09:49 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this. You will be in my thoughts.

FeliciaDA Posted: May 07, 2004 09:50 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear your news But these things do happen for a reason, and you will be better off without him in the end.

Take this time you need to surround yourself with family and friends and hang in there ..we're still here for you, no matter where you go!

jvs77 Posted: May 07, 2004 09:51 AM

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Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. Thank God you found out now instead of after you got married. I wish you all the best and every happiness!!! You will find your prince charming.

Dee7772 Posted: May 07, 2004 09:55 AM

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I am so sorry to hear your news. You are in my thoughts. Please go see your family, and do not feel alone. Please FM if you want to talk.

Diana

BCTM33 Posted: May 07, 2004 09:59 AM

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I am so sorry, but you have a great perspective though - it's his loss - not yours! Best of luck!

FrescaBride Posted: May 07, 2004 10:00 AM

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Sorry to hear this. Hang in there. And you can count on us. You can FM me if you just need to vent or need someone to listen. Good luck to you and remember that things always happen for a reason.

brideinapril Posted: May 07, 2004 10:01 AM

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You sound like you are a very strong person,you'll get through this just fine. :

diamondgrlie Posted: May 07, 2004 10:13 AM

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Oh I am so sorry. Best of luck to you from here on.

butterfly91804 Posted: May 07, 2004 10:22 AM

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I'm very sorry

RedHead Posted: May 07, 2004 10:41 AM

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suven Posted: May 07, 2004 10:47 AM

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Aww! we will all miss you!

Best wishes

Jax430 Posted: May 07, 2004 10:47 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this, but it is so much better to find this out now than after the wedding. You sound like you are going to come through this stronger than ever. Best of luck to you.