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Posted by JTsGal829

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by redjasper32

I HAVE TO SAY THAT I AM AMAZED HOW A GROUP OF LADIES (SOME WHO NEVER MET EACH OTHER) CAN BE SO CARING AND CONSIDERATE. ALOT OF US SEEM TO BE GOING THROUGH THE SAME THINGS. MY MOM HAS SAID THAT THESE FEELINGS CAN BE TIED UP TO THE PLANNING OF A WEDDING. HOWEVER IF THEY DONT SUBSIDE IT IS RECOMMENDED TO SEEK HELP.

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU'S THAT OPENED UP A VERY PERSONAL SUBJECT AND GAVE ALL OTHERS THE OPPORTUNITY TO VENT OUT THESE FEELINGS.

I POST VERY SELDOM, HOWEVER AFTER READING ALL THESE POSTS I WILL FIND MYSELF MORE OFTEN HERE BECAUSE I FELT THE SINCERE CONSIDERATION AMONG YOUR LADIES.

HAVE A GREAT NIGHT LADIES.

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Wedding planning is actually making it better for now. I guess cause my mind is preoccupied. Im sure ill be saying differently next august lol.

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for me too.. planning for the wedding keeps my mind on happier things.. although stressful at times, it's totally my element and i love every second of it!!! The boards totally keep me occupied too!!!

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I guess its a little bit because i know I have total control.. Although those lousy 'what ifs' come by every once in a while, i am actually controlling them pretty well with the help from all my LIW ladies.

I think he's amazing!! I don't know what took me so long to start reading this book..

I live in Queens..feel free to FM me or IM me anytime

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by JTsGal829

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by redjasper32

I HAVE TO SAY THAT I AM AMAZED HOW A GROUP OF LADIES (SOME WHO NEVER MET EACH OTHER) CAN BE SO CARING AND CONSIDERATE. ALOT OF US SEEM TO BE GOING THROUGH THE SAME THINGS. MY MOM HAS SAID THAT THESE FEELINGS CAN BE TIED UP TO THE PLANNING OF A WEDDING. HOWEVER IF THEY DONT SUBSIDE IT IS RECOMMENDED TO SEEK HELP.

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU'S THAT OPENED UP A VERY PERSONAL SUBJECT AND GAVE ALL OTHERS THE OPPORTUNITY TO VENT OUT THESE FEELINGS.

I POST VERY SELDOM, HOWEVER AFTER READING ALL THESE POSTS I WILL FIND MYSELF MORE OFTEN HERE BECAUSE I FELT THE SINCERE CONSIDERATION AMONG YOUR LADIES.

HAVE A GREAT NIGHT LADIES.

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Wedding planning is actually making it better for now. I guess cause my mind is preoccupied. Im sure ill be saying differently next august lol.

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for me too.. planning for the wedding keeps my mind on happier things.. although stressful at times, it's totally my element and i love every second of it!!! The boards totally keep me occupied too!!!

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I guess its a little bit because i know I have total control.. Although those lousy 'what ifs' come by every once in a while, i am actually controlling them pretty well with the help from all my LIW ladies.

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Yea exactly!! I hate those darn what ifs!! argg.. they get me everytime..but with the wedding i am in control of them pretty much.. the only concern i really have about the wedding is losing weight.. which is something i know i can do by then.... I'm fairly confident about everything else.. but that's also because i have a little more than a year to go.. we will see how controlled i am around this time next year..lmaoo

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Posted by Mimacat

And also I feel like at age 29 its just to much work to try and make new friends! LIW is, like my last outlet! If you girls werent here, I'd have 20 cats and I'd just eat a lot of cheesecake.

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i'm well on my way to the 20 cats, and i DO eat a lot of cheesecake.

seriously... how are you supposed to make friends once you're out of school?
Bars ain't my thing anymore... and my church has no members my age it seems...

LIW has been a lifesaver in the friend area.

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I make some killer cheesecake (no joke, bring some lactaid) I'll make it for you guys!!! Come do wedding stuff with me and heather and kerri and kelly.... it's an adventure!!!

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by Mimacat

And also I feel like at age 29 its just to much work to try and make new friends! LIW is, like my last outlet! If you girls werent here, I'd have 20 cats and I'd just eat a lot of cheesecake.

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i'm well on my way to the 20 cats, and i DO eat a lot of cheesecake.

seriously... how are you supposed to make friends once you're out of school?
Bars ain't my thing anymore... and my church has no members my age it seems...

LIW has been a lifesaver in the friend area.

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I make some killer cheesecake (no joke, bring some lactaid) I'll make it for you guys!!! Come do wedding stuff with me and heather and kerri and kelly.... it's an adventure!!!

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wedding stuff and cheesecake??? that's like a dream i had of a perfect day once..lmaoo. I'm there man! lmaoo
ETA: wait..forgot to add.. it was only totally perfect because jon bon jovi and david wright were there.. so is there anyway we can arrange that?

you're not abnormal, a lot of people feel this way every once in awhile We like ya

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Posted by JTsGal829

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by Mimacat

And also I feel like at age 29 its just to much work to try and make new friends! LIW is, like my last outlet! If you girls werent here, I'd have 20 cats and I'd just eat a lot of cheesecake.

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i'm well on my way to the 20 cats, and i DO eat a lot of cheesecake.

seriously... how are you supposed to make friends once you're out of school?
Bars ain't my thing anymore... and my church has no members my age it seems...

LIW has been a lifesaver in the friend area.

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I make some killer cheesecake (no joke, bring some lactaid) I'll make it for you guys!!! Come do wedding stuff with me and heather and kerri and kelly.... it's an adventure!!!

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wedding stuff and cheesecake??? that's like a dream i had of a perfect day once..lmaoo. I'm there man! lmaoo
ETA: wait..forgot to add.. it was only totally perfect because jon bon jovi and david wright were there.. so is there anyway we can arrange that?

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I'm still a newbie here and you shouldn't feel like that. You're loved here. And you're beautiful!!

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Posted by rahana316

I'm still a newbie here and you shouldn't feel like that. You're loved here. And you're beautiful!!

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Well I just KNOW you have to be talking to me then j/k

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Posted by yelley77

well, you've got about 100 friends here!! we all LOVE you!!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

wow we are a messed up bunch

no wonder we all get along so well

we are like the rejects from society!

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I officially add myself to our messed up little reject of society bunch I have 'sad' days as well....when I feel alone or depressed

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by ant n tilde

wow we are a messed up bunch

no wonder we all get along so well

we are like the rejects from society!

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I officially add myself to our messed up little reject of society bunch I have 'sad' days as well....when I feel alone or depressed

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Its probably why we're all online so much! I always feel like I must be the only one. Its so stupid, I will look at peoples photos on here and think 'oh look, they have so many friends!' but I guess looks can be decieving? Oh well. So glad I started up the crazy train last night.

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Posted by Mimacat

Does anyone else ever feel like they have no friends and they're really blah and sad a lot?

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I think I'm just stressing BIG TIME now...I had a meltdown on Friday, just sat in my car and started to cry for a few minutes! I'm working my butt off to pay for this wedding...and on top of that...just went back to school f/t for nursing...so you can imagine my stress and planning a wedding at the same time!

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by rahana316

I'm still a newbie here and you shouldn't feel like that. You're loved here. And you're beautiful!!

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Well I just KNOW you have to be talking to me then j/k

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Yes I am.

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by ant n tilde

wow we are a messed up bunch

no wonder we all get along so well

we are like the rejects from society!

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I officially add myself to our messed up little reject of society bunch I have 'sad' days as well....when I feel alone or depressed

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Its probably why we're all online so much! I always feel like I must be the only one. Its so stupid, I will look at peoples photos on here and think 'oh look, they have so many friends!' but I guess looks can be decieving? Oh well. So glad I started up the crazy train last night.

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Wow dont even talk like that. I should be talking like that. I didnt grow up in the US. I came here right out of high school and left all my friends there. I never made friends here in college because of time and work, etc. I only have like 4 really good friends and thats it. AND they're not even all girls!! So if anyone should be feeling down, it should be me!! Like everyone said, you're not the only one so dont be so down. Sometimes being alone give you time to get to know yourself better and understand yours ways and habits and make you content. So what if you dont have friends. Hell you can still get drunk at home and danc by yourself and sing to your self in the car. And when you get drunk you have your friends on LIW to report back to.