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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm so glad I posted this topic. At first I felt like a pathetic whiner, but I actually feel better knowing that I'm not insane and that you guys all go through the same things. Really, it is a comfort. The first thing I did when I came back from Vegas was come on here and check on how things were. Its only been a few months, but I've really grown to be curious and concerned for all of you girls, how your lives and weddings are going, etc. Its probably the ONLY thing that keeps me from really just breaking down. Its really hard to admit that youre not 100% happy when you've always been the 'funny girl'

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Heather, you're reading my mind...this website is my saving grace. I was always the class clown, crazy girl and now I stay at home....and that alone is depressing!!!!

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I totally understand! My cats just don't laugh at my jokes, and its so sad not to have that outlet! Thank god some of you girls on here find me amusing, b/c I really felt like that was a whole part of my identity that I was losing, b/c I just had no one to be funny WITH besides FH, and believe me, soemtimes even HE doesnt get my random humor

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Posted by jteach711

For me it is hard b/c I feel horrible if I complain b/c I pretty much have everything I could ever imagine. My family is the best , me and mom are like bff. My fh is amazing, I have the best job, the best puppy, I make good money, have some good friends

BUT........ sometimes I just feel sad, and I expect perfection in everything I do. Being OCD and having anxiety doesn't help much either.lol

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I totally understand! Like, what right to I have to be sad? But I guess you just can't help your feelings. It *****.

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by Mimacat

And also I feel like at age 29 its just to much work to try and make new friends! LIW is, like my last outlet! If you girls werent here, I'd have 20 cats and I'd just eat a lot of cheesecake.

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i'm well on my way to the 20 cats, and i DO eat a lot of cheesecake.

seriously... how are you supposed to make friends once you're out of school?
Bars ain't my thing anymore... and my church has no members my age it seems...

LIW has been a lifesaver in the friend area.

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I feel like you are explaning how I feel

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm so glad I posted this topic. At first I felt like a pathetic whiner, but I actually feel better knowing that I'm not insane and that you guys all go through the same things. Really, it is a comfort. The first thing I did when I came back from Vegas was come on here and check on how things were. Its only been a few months, but I've really grown to be curious and concerned for all of you girls, how your lives and weddings are going, etc. Its probably the ONLY thing that keeps me from really just breaking down. Its really hard to admit that youre not 100% happy when you've always been the 'funny girl'

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Heather, you're reading my mind...this website is my saving grace. I was always the class clown, crazy girl and now I stay at home....and that alone is depressing!!!!

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I totally understand! My cats just don't laugh at my jokes, and its so sad not to have that outlet! Thank god some of you girls on here find me amusing, b/c I really felt like that was a whole part of my identity that I was losing, b/c I just had no one to be funny WITH besides FH, and believe me, soemtimes even HE doesnt get my random humor

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I just talked to FH last night about how he doesn't LAUGH at me....he giggles/chuckles but never like belly laughs...I am funny...I've always been funny...he needs to laugh at me more or I'll have a breakdown...I offered to pay him to laugh at me....

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Posted by jteach711
Being OCD and having anxiety doesn't help much either.lol

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I know how you feel! I have really bad anxiety and mild OCD and it can make even the 'easiest' situation very hard to deal with.
so making friends is even harder.

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm so glad I posted this topic. At first I felt like a pathetic whiner, but I actually feel better knowing that I'm not insane and that you guys all go through the same things. Really, it is a comfort. The first thing I did when I came back from Vegas was come on here and check on how things were. Its only been a few months, but I've really grown to be curious and concerned for all of you girls, how your lives and weddings are going, etc. Its probably the ONLY thing that keeps me from really just breaking down. Its really hard to admit that youre not 100% happy when you've always been the 'funny girl'

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Heather, you're reading my mind...this website is my saving grace. I was always the class clown, crazy girl and now I stay at home....and that alone is depressing!!!!

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I totally understand! My cats just don't laugh at my jokes, and its so sad not to have that outlet! Thank god some of you girls on here find me amusing, b/c I really felt like that was a whole part of my identity that I was losing, b/c I just had no one to be funny WITH besides FH, and believe me, soemtimes even HE doesnt get my random humor

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I just talked to FH last night about how he doesn't LAUGH at me....he giggles/chuckles but never like belly laughs...I am funny...I've always been funny...he needs to laugh at me more or I'll have a breakdown...I offered to pay him to laugh at me....

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My FH has heard all of my material already! He's done w/laughing at me!

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm so glad I posted this topic. At first I felt like a pathetic whiner, but I actually feel better knowing that I'm not insane and that you guys all go through the same things. Really, it is a comfort. The first thing I did when I came back from Vegas was come on here and check on how things were. Its only been a few months, but I've really grown to be curious and concerned for all of you girls, how your lives and weddings are going, etc. Its probably the ONLY thing that keeps me from really just breaking down. Its really hard to admit that youre not 100% happy when you've always been the 'funny girl'

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Heather, you're reading my mind...this website is my saving grace. I was always the class clown, crazy girl and now I stay at home....and that alone is depressing!!!!

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I totally understand! My cats just don't laugh at my jokes, and its so sad not to have that outlet! Thank god some of you girls on here find me amusing, b/c I really felt like that was a whole part of my identity that I was losing, b/c I just had no one to be funny WITH besides FH, and believe me, soemtimes even HE doesnt get my random humor

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I just talked to FH last night about how he doesn't LAUGH at me....he giggles/chuckles but never like belly laughs...I am funny...I've always been funny...he needs to laugh at me more or I'll have a breakdown...I offered to pay him to laugh at me....

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i think you're hilarious. you had me cracking up at the passion party. i like that you're funny but that you can also have a normal convo without HAVING to be funny. it makes it even better when you say something wonderfully hilarious.

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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I can send you an FM or talk to you on Aim about it if you want. for me, it's kind of hard to explain.

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm so glad I posted this topic. At first I felt like a pathetic whiner, but I actually feel better knowing that I'm not insane and that you guys all go through the same things. Really, it is a comfort. The first thing I did when I came back from Vegas was come on here and check on how things were. Its only been a few months, but I've really grown to be curious and concerned for all of you girls, how your lives and weddings are going, etc. Its probably the ONLY thing that keeps me from really just breaking down. Its really hard to admit that youre not 100% happy when you've always been the 'funny girl'

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Heather, you're reading my mind...this website is my saving grace. I was always the class clown, crazy girl and now I stay at home....and that alone is depressing!!!!

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I totally understand! My cats just don't laugh at my jokes, and its so sad not to have that outlet! Thank god some of you girls on here find me amusing, b/c I really felt like that was a whole part of my identity that I was losing, b/c I just had no one to be funny WITH besides FH, and believe me, soemtimes even HE doesnt get my random humor

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I just talked to FH last night about how he doesn't LAUGH at me....he giggles/chuckles but never like belly laughs...I am funny...I've always been funny...he needs to laugh at me more or I'll have a breakdown...I offered to pay him to laugh at me....

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lol i laugh at u colleen!

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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Jenise, Chris is gonna be gone from early Saturday to next Wed....I am gonna need to hang out!!!!!

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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I can send you an FM or talk to you on Aim about it if you want. for me, it's kind of hard to explain.

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yeah its hard to explain

its like if you ask a normal person to go to the store, they will just go.

but if a person has anxiety about going to the store, then just THINKING about going to the store, , , will basically make them feel like they are dying. . .

good explanation girls? lol

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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Jenise, Chris is gonna be gone from early Saturday to next Wed....I am gonna need to hang out!!!!!

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oh noooo thats the only time i cant hang out!!!!!!! im going to myrtle beach sat! damnnnnnn

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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Jenise, Chris is gonna be gone from early Saturday to next Wed....I am gonna need to hang out!!!!!

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oh noooo thats the only time i cant hang out!!!!!!! im going to myrtle beach sat! damnnnnnn

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this is going to be the longest week of my life...i should be going...i'm a freakin aunt...but no...i have meetings/trainings at work so i can't go see my busted/ugly/freakish looking niece....

i swear, the kid is fug....and i love all babies....the kid has a nose that is rather bulbous....

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

omg we are all a bunch of rejects! and tilde i agree, we all get along so well because of this!

but im all for another gtg! FH goes out a lot but i dont go with him half of the time bc theres only so much sports/guy talk i can take...sometimes u just need some girls to talk to that u can relate to more! So i end up staying home doing nothing most of the time (which is why this site is very good for me haha)


btw- girls with anxiety...how do u know if u have it? lol i wonder if i have it and dont realize it haha

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I can send you an FM or talk to you on Aim about it if you want. for me, it's kind of hard to explain.

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yeah its hard to explain

its like if you ask a normal person to go to the store, they will just go.

but if a person has anxiety about going to the store, then just THINKING about going to the store, , , will basically make them feel like they are dying. . .

good explanation girls? lol

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oh ok then i guess i dont have it bc i dont feel that terrible about things but i def get anxious and that blah feeling a lot