Unexpected No's

LoriBeth2728 Posted: Oct 03, 2008 10:52 AM

Re: Unexpected No's

EVERY one of my friends back in CA (except my moh lol) said no. EVERY ONE!!!! I am still so so hurt. Most of them have no reason at all to not come. I get angry just thinking about it lol I'm sure by the wedding i'll be over it but I totally understand what it's like to think people are coming and have them say no for no reason!

RockysGirl Posted: Oct 03, 2008 12:10 PM

Re: Unexpected No's

Posted by ant090608

We received a number of unexpected no's...the one that really pissed me off was the best man. He didn't even respond just never returned calls!

DH received a text from him 2 weeks after the wedding to see if we got married!

I swear I never want to see him again!

What??????? That is CRAZY that he just never showed! I don't necessarily expect the rsvps back from our BP because i already KNOW they're coming, but to just not show up and then send a gay little text 2 weeks after?? Jeez.

So who did his best man end up being then??

ant090608 Posted: Oct 03, 2008 12:17 PM

Re: Unexpected No's

Posted by RockysGirl

Posted by ant090608

We received a number of unexpected no's...the one that really pissed me off was the best man. He didn't even respond just never returned calls!

DH received a text from him 2 weeks after the wedding to see if we got married!

I swear I never want to see him again!

What??????? That is CRAZY that he just never showed! I don't necessarily expect the rsvps back from our BP because i already KNOW they're coming, but to just not show up and then send a gay little text 2 weeks after?? Jeez.

So who did his best man end up being then??

I had a gut feeling he wasn't going to show...but it was more apparent when we had to tell him about the tuxes and never came through.

DH ended up asking my sister bf- he is like a brother to us, and helped out with the remodeling of the house. I knew we should've asked him in the beginning. He was so happy to do it...I am just glad that it worked out.