Up all night crying...(Kinda long)
My mother threw me a suprise shower on Sunday.
I have a bridemaid that lives across the country, and she wasn't obviously there. She called my mother last night telling her that she was upset and thought my mother was wrong for not sending her a shower invitation. My mother told her that she had called the maid of honor and said that if she could please contact all the bridemaids and let them know the time and date where the shower was going to be. Plus my mom tells me later that they did tell her for a different date and she said that it would cost too much to fly over here. Anyhow she was relentless with my mother on the phone. my mother got upset and started screaming at her because she said how dare she call the MOb and question my mother and was very rude and nasty. I told my friend that I was upset that she called my mother and was rude and that I understood that she was upset but she should of have called me not my mother. She then threw in my face the cost of the dress and the cost of her airfaire. I hung up on her my wedding is in 25 days what should I do???? I am tempted to send her a check for the cost of the dress and ticket and not have her in the wedding.
I am so sorry that this is so long!!
I have a bridemaid that lives across the country, and she wasn't obviously there. She called my mother last night telling her that she was upset and thought my mother was wrong for not sending her a shower invitation. My mother told her that she had called the maid of honor and said that if she could please contact all the bridemaids and let them know the time and date where the shower was going to be. Plus my mom tells me later that they did tell her for a different date and she said that it would cost too much to fly over here. Anyhow she was relentless with my mother on the phone. my mother got upset and started screaming at her because she said how dare she call the MOb and question my mother and was very rude and nasty. I told my friend that I was upset that she called my mother and was rude and that I understood that she was upset but she should of have called me not my mother. She then threw in my face the cost of the dress and the cost of her airfaire. I hung up on her my wedding is in 25 days what should I do???? I am tempted to send her a check for the cost of the dress and ticket and not have her in the wedding.
I am so sorry that this is so long!!
