Update: Bride Meltdown. Sending letter: Edited with Cliff note version
NapaValleyGirl
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So, for those of you who read the post yesterday about the bridal meltdown.... I'm going to send her the email tonight. She comes back from HM today.... She lives outside of NY which is why I can't see her face to face. I also think it's hard to discuss with her on the phone.
Wish me luck (deep breath)
*** Basically what happened, is that I was MOH for my friend. I helped plan her wedding, planned shower and bachelorette. At the end of the wedding, my FH and I took a shuttle back to hotel with her family. She came to the hotel and proceeded to curse me out in front of about 50 people that I 'abandoned her' and 'I didnt' care' because I took a shuttle without her. She said that as her MOH, it was my responsibility to ride back with her. It was a 20 minute difference... She was with her FH and she was not alone. I am finding it hard to forget the humiliation and embarassment she caused me.
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ugh. good luck. i just had to send a difficult email to a friend about bring her DH to my wedding... not fun, I know how you feel. she hasn't responded yet either so that just makes it worse.
Toucan311
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Good luck to you!
roan126
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Good luck. Keep us posted on how it goes.
Snick n Nick
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good luck! hope she takes it well (or as well as can be expected!)
futuremrsfab
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good luck hon! and I hope you get a well-deserved apology
soon2bmrsconnolly
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Good luck- I hope it works out for you
NapaValleyGirl
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Thanks ladies....
Deep breath. I know I'm doing the right thing. She doesn't think she did anything wrong! She wrote me an email yesterday saying 'HM is GREAT! Why haven't you written me back???'
She's hoping I forgot ALL about it...
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Posted by NapaValleyGirl
Thanks ladies....
Deep breath. I know I'm doing the right thing. She doesn't think she did anything wrong! She wrote me an email yesterday saying 'HM is GREAT! Why haven't you written me back???'
She's hoping I forgot ALL about it...
I think she is too....
I see you took the deep breath - and you said above you know you are doing the right thing - thats what matters...
blaine08
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goodluck!!! hopefully shes in her right mind
mRm2008
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That is a good approach. Let us know how it goes
FinallyEngaged
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GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NapaValleyGirl
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Posted by snwb08
ugh. good luck. i just had to send a difficult email to a friend about bring her DH to my wedding... not fun, I know how you feel. she hasn't responded yet either so that just makes it worse.
It's hard, isn't it!!! Good luck and I hope it all works out!!
snwb08
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Posted by snwb08
ugh. good luck. i just had to send a difficult email to a friend about bring her DH to my wedding... not fun, I know how you feel. she hasn't responded yet either so that just makes it worse.
It's hard, isn't it!!! Good luck and I hope it all works out!!
it's the WORST. my other friend was like, wow, I wish i had your guts and that's so smart to just get it out there. I'm like, there is no way she can ignore the situation and just pretend it didn't happen! I can't deal with that kind of stuff!
hopefully your friend will just apologize, and mine won't bring her husband to my wedding
