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Update: Bride Meltdown. Sending letter: Edited with Cliff note version

Original post by NapaValleyGirl

So, for those of you who read the post yesterday about the bridal meltdown.... I'm going to send her the email tonight. She comes back from HM today.... She lives outside of NY which is why I can't see her face to face. I also think it's hard to discuss with her on the phone.

Wish me luck (deep breath)


*** Basically what happened, is that I was MOH for my friend. I helped plan her wedding, planned shower and bachelorette.
At the end of the wedding, my FH and I took a shuttle back to hotel with her family.
She came to the hotel and proceeded to curse me out in front of about 50 people that I 'abandoned her' and 'I didnt' care' because I took a shuttle without her. She said that as her MOH, it was my responsibility to ride back with her.
It was a 20 minute difference... She was with her FH and she was not alone.
I am finding it hard to forget the humiliation and embarassment she caused me.
megzzie Posted:

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I missed what happened but I hope everything goes well - good luck!

NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

did she write back yet?

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nope, she gets home from honeymoon this afternoon (cali time)
I have a nervous tummy but I shouldn't be nervous! I think I am pretty considerate to wait until she got back.
She actually wrote me an email while on HM saying 'why haven't you responded to my email?!?'

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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Any updates Cyn? I hope it went OK.
NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Any updates Cyn? I hope it went OK.




Hey Jenn,

Nada... No response. Thank u for the

You're a sweetie!
debismom Posted:

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huh??? I didn't know MOH's were suppose to accompany the Bride AFTER she's married. Isn't Husband suppose to do that? Hon, it sounds like something was terribly wrong in this young lady's mind to be cursing you out!! You didn't do anything wrong!! Mary MOB
NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Posted by debismom

huh??? I didn't know MOH's were suppose to accompany the Bride AFTER she's married. Isn't Husband suppose to do that? Hon, it sounds like something was terribly wrong in this young lady's mind to be cursing you out!! You didn't do anything wrong!! Mary MOB




Thank you mary. I'm still very shaken up by it... I appreciate your kind words and your hug!
DD628 Posted:

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oh boy...sounds like she was a lil tipsy...
You didnt do anything wrong...I would write her too!

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