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Vendor Rant (without mentioning names)

AmorPeruano Posted:

Vendor Rant (without mentioning names)

I just wanted to share this story to vent really, thats why I wont write any specific names....but I was so disappointed, I had to write it out and let out some steam....

So yesterday FH, my parents, and I had an appointment with a photographer that you hear about on here relatively often. We also knew about them b/c we had a family friend who used them and in addition, they were also at my reception hall's expo a few weeks ago.

So we thought, okay....relatively good reviews on here from past brides....lets make an appointment and go check them out!

When I call to make the appointment, this guy answers, and he sounds very distracted, almost like he was laughing with someone else in the room.... but I tried to ignore it and I asked him if this date and day were available to come in and talk about packages, and he says SURE, takes my name and number down, repeats the date and time, and then I hang up thinking we are set to go!!

I get there last night, (and keep in mind my FH took off from work for this and I rearranged my work schedule for this) and as I walk in, to my surprise, the guy is in the middle of an E-shoot in the the studio. He looks at me like 'Can I help you????' (And the poor couple, was like, who are these people??) And I'm like 'yes, I'm so and so , and we have a 6:00pm appointment. '

He proceeds to go into his office, speak to a lady secretary whom I'd never spoken to before, come back out, and hes like, 'I dont have you down for any appointment. Who did you speak to on the phone?. '( I really wanted to say, YOU dumb***, b/c I was almost positive it was him who answered...its the only 2 of them in the office and it wasn't her!!!..... but I backed down and just said I didn't get a name ) So he's like..... well, let me see if I can 'work something out for you' Like hes doing us a big giant favor, meanwhile hes the one who messed up, no apology, nothing.....why be like that, I don't understand it??

I'm like buddy...you already either lost, messed up or just completely never wrote down my appointment....so far your booking chances for ME trusting YOU on my wedding day aren't so good!!

The guy was just NOT friendly...never gave me his name, never shook my hand, had this fake smile the whole time. Just very cold!

He sat us down in the back, handed us 3 or 4 albums, a price sheet....and left us there for 15 minutes. He then came back, asked me if I had any questions...I said yes, 'can you tell me who was the photography for this album, I really like his or her work'....he says to me 'Oh, thats somebody who's not available for your wedding day so I rather not talk about it or give out names' How weird!! Not even give a name? Whats the big secret...if hes not available, hes not available, no problem. Hmm!

I swear I walked out to that place scared to death to go see another vendor. I thought, if this is the way they treat you, then why I am even putting myself through this?? For the thousands of dollars we spend on photography, I was at least hoping he'd write down my appointment or be at least a little bit nice to me when I got there. : (

Sorry this is SO long...I just had to vent a bit!!
rkl1130 Posted:

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Oh I'm so sorry That is really rotten.

By chance, who did you go see???
AmorPeruano Posted:

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I can FM you, I just don't want to type on the thread b/c from past experiences on here, I don't want to hurt anyones feelings on who may possibly be using them or used them, you know...thats all.
twinkle164 Posted:

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That's terrible. DON'T book him for sure, but don't worry either. I met with several photographers and they were all professional. The next one will be better.

BunnyBride Posted:

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I'm so sorry! That is really awful! Could you please tell us who the vendor was? My sister is currently looking for a photog for her wedding and I wouldn't want her to go through this!

FutureMrsRice Posted:

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I am so sorry! Some vendors don't realize that they are in a customer service field

When you find the right photographer, you will know -- GOOD LUCK!
rkl1130 Posted:

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Posted by AmorPeruano

I can FM you, I just don't want to type on the thread b/c from past experiences on here, I don't want to hurt anyones feelings on who may possibly be using them or used them, you know...thats all.



Yes FM me the vendor.
cookiemonster Posted:

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I'm sorry this happened to you. My recommendation is to go out and make more photographer appts ASAP so you can see that not everyone else is like that. If i were you, the longer I waited, the more gun-shy I'd become. You will find the perfect vendors for you - there are plenty of nice, talented people out there. Good luck!
luna bride x Posted:

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oh no! that would totally have pissed me off!

chrispar Posted:

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That really is terrible. But don't be discouraged because he was an a$$

AmorPeruano Posted:

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Thanks girls!! Thanks for letting me vent! Im telling you, between the Dj and the Photographer and the Limo and the Hall and the Flowers and the Dress......I don't think I had a clue going into it it was gonna be so overwhelming and I was gonna be making appointments all over LI until I was blue in the face!! lollol

kellybean Posted:

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that is terrible !! It will get better!!

jteach711 Posted:

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that was really crappy of him, do you mind fm ing me who it was, I am so nervous about my photog

AS Posted:

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I am so sorry, thats terrible, can you pl FM me also, Im curious

Tori9299 Posted:

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Can you send me FM and let me know who it was so I don't waste my time. I have to start looking this summer it will save me a trip.

RGV07 Posted:

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can you fm mail too? just curious!

LitBallerinaGirl Posted:

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Jeez sorry that happened to you. My guess is that the photographer either doesn't work there anymore, or that album wasn't done by their photographers.
I went to see a LIW vendor and was amazed by their brag book and the guy there told me that he didn't remember who shot it when I askd him. I then saw the SAME EXACT brag book with the SAME EXACT PICTURES at another photographer in Brooklyn. I didn't book either just incase.
I say vendors who don't give you total respect aren't worth your time. You're a good person for leaving their names out of this website.
Good Luck and I hope you find your perfect photographer.
chrispar Posted:

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Posted by MPAS

I am so sorry, thats terrible, can you pl FM me also, Im curious




me too!
MaureenM618 Posted:

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Can you please FM me the infor too. I'm just starting to look at photographers! Thanks!

AmorPeruano Posted:

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Posted by LitBallerinaGirl

Jeez sorry that happened to you. My guess is that the photographer either doesn't work there anymore, or that album wasn't done by their photographers.
I went to see a LIW vendor and was amazed by their brag book and the guy there told me that he didn't remember who shot it when I askd him. I then saw the SAME EXACT brag book with the SAME EXACT PICTURES at another photographer in Brooklyn. I didn't book either just incase.
I say vendors who don't give you total respect aren't worth your time. You're a good person for leaving their names out of this website.
Good Luck and I hope you find your perfect photographer.




Awwwe thanks...yea I just needed to vent....you ever just have one of those days.....Im really hoping my next 2 vendors are nice...im going to 12th Night and Thomas Paul....so hopefully that will go much better and they will be nice!

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