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Very upset

Original post by Suzanne

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I really cant believe all that happened on here today and i feel terrible that it has caused one of my dear friends to not post anymore.

I enjoy coming on here and chatting and getting advise from some of the greatest women on earth the LIW women, but the witch hunts are getting out of hand..

Who gives a rats fanny who is getting engaged and who is fake and who is not. does it really matter to you who is getting married?
I am stunned to read that terrible thread. Some of those posts were so out of line i still cant believe it, What allure is going through right now, happened to me once and it did help to talk about to people and if i had known about LIW i would have definalty come here for comfort and if i had and i got that kind of responce i dont know what i would have done.

I am sure that some of you will blast me for this post but i really dont care, i will not respond after this post, but i just wanted to say i liked it better when we got along and there was no BASHING and cruelty. I am a very friendly and fun loving person and I just dont like what i read from time to time about some of the members on this board, and it makes me sad and i dont come here to be sad, so maybe i should reconsider posting as well..

jennbaby Thread views: 1,377

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me too Marni I go with the flow

rlivings Thread views: 1,377

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I have recieved many FMs about my post yesterday about 'who is still here'. Basically, there are alot of us on here that post when we feel we can add something, be helpful or are seeking help from others. We don't post on every thread and add our 2cents when the same thing has been said by 100 other girls.

I have read on threads that girls like me (stalkers I think we were called) should not just be reading posts but should be posting more often but the irony is, when I do post a new topic it doesn't seem to be read by many girls or responded to. Maybe it is because I am not in a clique, not the most popular girl on the board or what have you. Maybe it is just that no one can help on that subject. All I know is, I am a new wife trying to help others as I was helped once by many of you.

That is what this board is about to me!!

Every dog has it's day!! Remember that.

Marnles Thread views: 1,377

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rlivings-

You're not a stalker, you're a lurker! LOL!!! Sorry, found that too cute!

And you have every right to use the board as you wish.

My posts don't get nearly as many replies, but such is life. Those who reply to my 'good news' posts I appreciate. Those who don't will also get no reply from me (when it comes to sharing good news). If that makes me a baby, so be it. What goes around comes around. But I try to stay neutral and get along with everyone...Luckily there are plenty of women on here who offer a kind word or a shoulder to lean on when Im in need, and I try to do the same for them.

rlivings Thread views: 1,377

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LMAO!!! That's right......LURKER!!

You have an excellent point. Sometimes I don't reply to good news because I think, 'who will care if they get one more CONGRATS?' but I now know, after posting a review of my wedding and getting few responses, that it pretty much SUCKS.

Becky Thread views: 1,377

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Rachel, please don't feel that away about your wedding review post. I didn't realize that people kept close track of that kind of thing. I personally read EVERY review of weddings that I see, but I almost never respond to them becuase I feel strange posting the same one or two word response that many others have already posted. But I am off to find your post and respond

rlivings Thread views: 1,377

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I agree with you Becky 100%. I usually don't post one or 2 words that many have posted on either but some interpret that negagtively and in response don't respond on threads you post.

Again, so silly. Believe me, I don't take it personally. But check out my pics anyway.