W T F is wrong with PEOPLE!!! My MOH just dropped a bomb on me!!! UPDATE page 2

Original post by gNi1125

Jan 09, 2006 03:38 PM

I can't even freakin type right now!! I am so fuckin' pissed off! To make a long story short my MOH just dropped out because her fuckin' fiance was pissed off that he isn't in the bridal party!! He is not close to George at all! W T F would make him think he is in the bridal party???? He's pissed off that she would have been walking down the aisle with my brother instead of him! I basically ripped her a new assshole and told her to have a nice life.

NOT TO MENTION I've known this girl over 10 years and haven't ordered my BM dresses yet because of her!! I could kill someone right now...everything falls in my lap last minute.

You would think for once in a lifetime people could put their own selffishness aside for 1 fuckin' day!!

autumn Posted: Jan 09, 2006 11:57 PM

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So sorry to hear that sweetie, her FH should get over it. If he isn't that close to your FH, then he should deal with the fact of not being asked in the first place.

Jennie0898 Posted: Jan 10, 2006 10:14 AM

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Wow how sad is it that her FI is so insecure about their relationship that he'd even say that and how sad is it that this girl has no spine and can't stand up to him and do the right thing. She made a commitment. Obviously she doesn't value that or your friendship. You are smart to cut your losses.

MsKitty1274 Posted: Jan 10, 2006 10:17 AM

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SO sorry to hear about this Irene!!! This sux! I hope it all works out for you!!!

-Jill

MrsFelix Posted: Jan 10, 2006 10:29 AM

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Posted by Jennie0898

Wow how sad is it that her FI is so insecure about their relationship that he'd even say that and how sad is it that this girl has no spine and can't stand up to him and do the right thing. She made a commitment. Obviously she doesn't value that or your friendship. You are smart to cut your losses.

I definitely have to agree. For her FI to behave this way is ridiculous and quite frankly 'bitchy' I know it's hard now, but you'll see, you'll find someone better and more suited to be your MOH.

zapphire82 Posted: Jan 10, 2006 10:47 AM

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I just had the same issue with one of my bridesmaids, who is my sister in law. Her husband was upset because he was not in it and she dropped out. The thing is that my fiance and him don't talk, so why should he be in the wedding. That really hurt me because I guess she cared more about us....The worse part is that she dropped out after she had gone to the dress fitting and everything. That was last month, so I'm over it.....

hsacks23r Posted: Jan 10, 2006 11:44 AM

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I am soooooooooooo sorry

that is not right at all she had no right to drop out beacuse her Fh is not in the party...maybe you should have a serouis talk with her (try not to get to emotinal ) and explane it all to her

wow I am so soory

BernandRob Posted: Jan 10, 2006 11:56 AM

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I'm sorry to hear that some people don't have a clue.

Nina Posted: Jan 10, 2006 12:06 PM

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I am so sorry sweetie

Just promote one of your bridesmaids, and maybe you can add someone you may have wanted previously(family member, friend) to take the others place.

Everything is going to be okay...just make yourself a stiff one, drink it, and take a deep breath. And remember...

Karma is a serious Bi--otch!!!

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 10, 2006 12:13 PM

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Uhg, the guy sounds like a controlling sicko, and the MOH a wimpy pathetic girl. Good for you for telling her off. What a freak. Some people are really mental. I guarantee when that girl gets married she won't even have one friend in her bridal party because she'll alienate everyone. biatch

smurray Posted: Jan 10, 2006 12:33 PM

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TheBigDay Posted: Jan 10, 2006 12:43 PM

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I just had to say you ex-MOH is such a BIZNICH (as FH would put it) No ONE should expect to be in a bridal party just because their significant other is! (boyfriend, Fiance, or spouse) that is NOT how it works!!! I would definitly not be friends with someone like that! Personally I wouldn't doubt there is something else to the story, no matter what it is she's a loser and doesnt deserve a friend like you! I wasnt in Fiance's brother's wedding, i wasnt even invited to the bachelorette party! I am over it :) (really didnt wanna go anyway heehee)

Good Luck!

justshir Posted: Jan 10, 2006 12:47 PM

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her FH's like the puppet master. he started all this crap! him and his insecurities. she's not any better either for agreeing to every lame demand. they're so selfish and so immature. screw em!