Was or is everybody nervous about fh bachelor party?
frisky1947
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I definately am. My fh is having at least 2, one from work and one from his ushers. They are going to Philadelphia for an Eagles game and I know that his friends are hiring a stripper. I guess I should mention that my fh is a police officer and so are his friends. Last week was his bosses bachelor party in AC and they hired strippers. I was even told that something happened.
How does everyone feel about their fh bachelor parties?
MissingTheBGene
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I'm not worried. I trust FH, that's why I'm marrying him!
glinda_goodwitch
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I'm not worried for 2 reasons:
1. FH's BM is his brother, who is 18 and may or may not be 19 by the time of the bachelor party. Things can't get too crazy if he can't be let into a bar or strip club
2. I trust FH not to touch a stripper or get too crazy. He knows I'd be upset if he did.
MrsFudge
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I totally trust FH... I know he would never do anything bad...
CalJoe0124
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Not worried, I totally trust him, he would never hurt me or do anything to make me upset.
SFP0214
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I wasn't worried at all
BHW
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Although I trusted my FI, I was nervous about the bachelor party. No matter how much I trust him, I just get nervous about those kind of things. It didn't help that one of the GM assured me that my b**bs wouldn't be the last ones FI saw before the wedding. Nice, huh? I know FI would never hurt me and risk throwing away everything we have for a night of fun. However, I couldn't help but be a little worried. That's just in my nature. I went away with my friends that weekend and that really took things off my mind. I had such a great weekend away. If you're going to be nervous or constantly think about what he's doing, I recommend staying active and going somewhere even if it's just to a friend's place. It definitely helps pass the time.
VS11
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no,,I wasnt nervous...AT ALL!
Sweetpea130000
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I am not nervous at all, there are actually 2 bachelor parties he will be at between now and the wedding, and I am not worried.
itslaurie.
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not at all, i'd like to go!
franksgirl323
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Nope....he knows how to have fun within limits...I trust him completely.
alex110879
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I completely understand the whole cop thing adding to your fears. My FH is not works for the police dept, but is also a vol fireman. So i get the double wammy. My only saving grace is that my brother is the BM and my other two are groomsmen. Then again, my brothers bachelor party was in montreal, nothing like leaving the country. BUt I still have faith that nothing will happen only because he knows i would never let him down if he did.... or my brother for that matter
becks23
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Nope.
MissingTheBGene
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This may seem like a stupid question, but may I ask what does being a cop have to do with being worried about a bachelor party?
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Not worried at all.....fact is if I didn't trust him then I wouldn't be marrying him!
dita531
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alex110879
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Posted by MissingTheBGene
This may seem like a stupid question, but may I ask what does being a cop have to do with being worried about a bachelor party?
Cops and FFs have a unique partying mode. For example, camping with them was spent having potato gun fights at 3 am with the neighboring site who were a different set of cops. They drink alot and do stupid things. It is a big boys club. With alot of immaturity. It just seams that when they get together they do stupid things or manly things, or both. I know, one trip i went with them on to florida we ended up woth an additional 15 girls in our bus on the way home and they didnt know any of their names... it is can just be unique..
soontobemrsv
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i am not the least bit nervous, i know that i have nothing to worry about, which is a great feeling!
Goldi1021
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I would only be leary if one of his bachelor parties had him going to Montreal - it is legal to touch boobies there. Luckily we are getting married in the dead of winter and if he wants to travel almost 10 hours to touch boobies in the snow, more power to him!
july06bride
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I trust fh completely or i wouldnt be marrying him, but of course a bit of me hates the idea... I am nervous about some of his friends who arent my favorite making him drink toooooo much... as far as strippers i am sure they will have them but i am not concerned about it, the groomsman are all single and will probably get the strippers for themselves
