Was or is everybody nervous about fh bachelor party?

Original post by frisky1947

Sep 07, 2005 03:32 PM

I definately am. My fh is having at least 2, one from work and one from his ushers. They are going to Philadelphia for an Eagles game and I know that his friends are hiring a stripper. I guess I should mention that my fh is a police officer and so are his friends. Last week was his bosses bachelor party in AC and they hired strippers. I was even told that something happened.

How does everyone feel about their fh bachelor parties?

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Sep 07, 2005 06:27 PM

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I thinkit's raunchy

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted: Sep 07, 2005 07:09 PM

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Not that I'm nervous that he'll do anything but everyone on here has to admit, that having their FH staring at some other chick all night, isn't the most fun thing... you know?

But it's all good clean fun...

BJandDan Posted: Sep 07, 2005 07:10 PM

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I think the only thing that I am nervous about is that his BM doesn't have a good party for him.

070306 Posted: Sep 07, 2005 07:15 PM

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I trust him, however he is the first out of his friends to get married. The ushers have been planning this since he proposed. Nervous about the guys behaving!!

JBKempf Posted: Sep 07, 2005 07:18 PM

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Posted by Soon2BeMrs.S

I thinkit's raunchy

I second that. I am so against them. They just aren't moral.

PegaLega Posted: Sep 07, 2005 10:32 PM

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I can understand being nervous, I probably will be only b/c I wont know what is going on...but otherwise I will be fine, I trust him

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Sep 07, 2005 10:39 PM

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I posted on the '05 board as well...

I am not worried at all...my thought is, if you can't trust him...don't marry him! (not you in particular, but in general)....if you trust him and he has never given you a reason not to, there is nothing to worry about!

germai68 Posted: Sep 07, 2005 10:48 PM

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I wasn't worried at all. I trust FH.

evnme Posted: Sep 07, 2005 10:58 PM

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i trust him

DanaMZ Posted: Sep 07, 2005 11:20 PM

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Yes.....and I do not agree that it is due to a lack of trust. I trust that neither of us would do anything to jeopardize our relationship. This does not mean, however that if I am not comfortable having other girls' shake their boobies in my FH's face, (because this is what happens at a bachelor party - amongst other things), that our marriage is doomed to fail.

tiffandmatt Posted: Sep 07, 2005 11:42 PM

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I totally agree that they are not moral. There should be no reason for a FH to have to see another womans body before your wedding. Thank goodness FH has already told his friends he dosen't want a stripper. Forget that last night of freedom, that ended when the ring gets put on your finger. From then on in, he should only have eyes for you! Make sure you tell him that you have reservations about the party and stripper, maybe he'll change the plans for you.

BKtoLI Posted: Sep 07, 2005 11:56 PM

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FH is the last of his friends to get married, and my brothers who are GM are both married, and his brother is gay!!

Needless to say, I think he would be happier going gambling than to a strip club. But knowing my brothers (they're both cops!!) I wouldn't put it past them to wind up in a strip joint.

However, since I plan on getting wild and crazy at my bachelorette parties, WTH am I to complain??? (I might dance with guys, but I draw the line there!!)

October Bliss Posted: Sep 08, 2005 01:00 AM

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Not worried at all. The BP is a golf outing at my FH insistence. That aside, I do NOT trust his BM to honor FH request for a golf outing, and I expect him to hire a limo and haul the FH off to Atlantic City or some such nonsense for the lone purpose of trying to get FH drunk and in front of a stripper. Given how FH feels about strippers, (I believe what he said was I have you, why do I want to look at another woman?? ) if it happens, he will walk out and call me to come pick him up.

stephanief Posted: Sep 08, 2005 08:47 AM

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I am not worried at all. I also trust my FH completely. I know he is getting strippers and I do not mind. If he does anything stupid he knows I will find out and leave his but at the alter

johnsae Posted: Sep 08, 2005 08:47 AM

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My FH is going to Montreal for his bachelor party, and now after reading these posts about how touching boobs is legal there, I am getting a little nervous. What else is legal there??

stephanief Posted: Sep 08, 2005 08:50 AM

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Posted by JBKempf

Posted by Soon2BeMrs.S

I thinkit's raunchy

I second that. I am so against them. They just aren't moral.

Who are we to judge what is moral or not?

Happybride2005 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 08:51 AM

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fh told me about what happened at his. they went to a strip club. he said the clubs aren't the same. it shows him what's waiting for him at home

IrishBride-05 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 09:37 AM

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I'm not worried about strippers. I'm sure there will be strippers - it's almost a right of passage. He's really not into them and I trust him. I am afraid that he'll get very drunk and the other guys won't take care of him. If he doesn't eat when he's drinking he gets plastered and really stupid.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 09:41 AM

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I was nervous in the beginning because his best man had a sketchy bachelor party - but I don't care anymore. He knows that FH doens't want what he had. My FH wouldn't ever do anything to me. I wouldn't marry him if I didn't trust him.

EMES2006 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 09:41 AM

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I'm with IrishBride....I'm more concerned about how much they all will drink, including dear FH.

Normally when the guys get together, whether it be for a bachelor party, birthday party, or even poker night....the wives get together too and drive the drunk guys home at the end of the night.

At his Bach. party, I'm VERY worried about them all getting drunk and being irresponsible and thinking they can drive!

As for the strippers...I can't stop that. I think they are mostly for the single guys anyway. I trust and love my FH and I'm very secure that he'll be a good boy!