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transamgirlie Posted:

Wedding Canceled

To All my '07 Ladies,
First of all I want you all to know how much I care for you all. Now I need to tell you that we have decided to cancel the wedding. This is why I haven't been around the past week or so. We have had our ups and downs w/ trying to plan this thing and life is just getting in our way. We have so much going on and so much responsibilities day to day that we just can't financially commit to doing this. We are still together and trying to work out our lives and our finances but right now getting married just isn't the smart thing for us to do.
Canceling this thing is so emotionally hard I can't even begin to tell you. I have my dress paid for and my deposit on the hall both things were paid for from my family and they both expect the $$ back for them.
So I have finished writing my letter of cancelation to my hall (which will be sent certified mail) and plan on also hand delivering it and explaning that I will indeed need the deposit money returned. In my opinion they have 9 months to rebook my date.
SO
If you know of anyone looking for a wonderful place to have their wedding and looking to save themselves some $ please let them know that my date of Feb 2, 2007 will be available at Giorgio's. I can honestly tell you that I fell in love w/ that hall years and years ago and never wanted to get married anywhere else and I have been to my share of weddings.
I will also mention that I am considering selling my dress, there is a picture of it in my community album. I have mine in the gold color more of an offwhite since I am so pale and it was ordered in a size 10 for alterations. Also considering I am a petite it was ordered in a shorter length. If you are interested please FM me for more information.

Yes this is killing me and I have spent days crying my eyes out and the such but no matter which way I look at it I can't do it. My family wasn't going to help except with the 2 things that I listed and I am already working 2 jobs and going through some serious personal issues.

We may never get married now...just being that I have had my dreams ripped out from my feet and I don't know if I can ever even try to do it again.

I'm sorry if I brought anyone down but I have been wanting to say something to you all for almost a week now but I had a hard time typing these words out. I feel like i have been missing out on things since I haven't been around and I want you all to know that I have missed you. I support you all 100% in everything that you do and I know that you will all have everything that you want on your wedding day and thereafter.
I will probably still kick around here - you all became a little family to me - just less than before.
But you can always find me on myspace!

Laura
bellaro782 Posted:

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I am sooooooo sooooo sorry that you are going threw this right now... I hope everything works out and you know what it will ... Everything in life happens for a reason and I know you might not feel that right now but In fact it is true .. If you ever need to talk i am here for you ..
MJDoc12 Posted:

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no words any of us type--will make the pain any easier...but know that we are all thinking of you and wish nothing but the best for your future--wherever life may take you---always remember that everything happens for a reason, even if we don't know that reason immediately.

i'm so sorry---good luck to you!!
enjft Posted:

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Laura,

I am really sorry this is happening to you. You have to believe that it is happening for a reason adn it will all make sense in the end. I am happy that you guys are still together. I am very proud of you being so strong. Stick around because we are family!
Nina Posted:

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Laura honey I am at a loss of words.
But please know you are not the only one and this is common. At least you and FH are still together and in the end something will work out!! Now is just not the time. I love you girl, and I'm only an FM or myspace away. And I don't care when or if you ever get married....we still have to meet at Claudios!!!
lilqtpie2181 Posted:

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I Have been on an emotional rollercoaster today ( hormones) and my heart broke to read ur news. I shed a tear for you. Hopefully that will help u cry one less tear form those pretty eyes. Chin up sweety.. I know its hard.. its a long long story but I almost had my dreams torn out from beneath my feet a while back so I do understand that it is hard.
The plus side of things is that you and ur hunny are still together and tryin to work things out. If it is meant to be you will conquer all. I hope you do!!!
As far as never being able to try again.. That will ease and you will see in no time.. u will want to try again. Myabe not something extravagant but something small so you can officially be with the one you love.
I truley wish you luck...ur sweetheart with a big heart.
You better stick around..
FM me if u ever need to talk.
Just remember you always have peoplehere who are on ur side!!!
2Be1 Posted:

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I pray in time for your emotional healing
Athee07 Posted:

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Laura hunny,
Im so sorry hunny but like everyone else mentioned try and believe things happen for a reason and although it may not be so clear right now something will work out in the end! Please know that you have a bunch of girls on here who really care and wish nothing but happiness for you in the future. Im always here for you
Brassgirl9 Posted:

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I'm so sorry this happend. I know you only get one wedding and you want it to be special, but there were a few brides on this site that were doing a very inexpensive wedding at home. It can still be done if you want to be married by next year! I'm sure it was a difficult decision and I wish you the best of luck.
PaddysGirl15 Posted:

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Laura, I am so sorry.

I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and it took a lot of guts to make such a mature decision.


Many for you and I hope everything goes your way!!!
werock0709 Posted:

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I don't think any words would be comforting right now, but just know that, YES.. we are a little family here, and what and when ever you need us, we'll be here. I'm glad your still together, but perhaps now wasn't the right time. You'll be in my thoughts. Be well, and keep your chin up!

FDWedding07 Posted:

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I am so sorry to here this. I hope you and your love are able to work out all of this. You seem so strong!! Try and take it all one day at a time. You will come out a stonger person in the end.
Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted:

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I'm so sorry
Mdolph6 Posted:

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This has got to be one hard time for you, but remember we are all here for you. I hope everything works out for you and when the time is right you do get the wedding you always wanted.
Stay strong
transamgirlie Posted:

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Thank you all so much. Yesterday was just harder than usual - having to tell my mother and then writing the letters of cancelation ect...
What you all said means so much to me - thank you all so much.
I will be in touch w/ you all.
DNicholes Posted:

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There are no words to express how sorry I am. At least you still have the love of your life at your side. I wish you all the luck in the world.
prinses777 Posted:

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I am so sorry that you have to go through this, but only you know whats best, even if its something you don't want to do. I wish you all the luck and always know that you have a ton of friends on here that support you no matter what.

sugarkube4 Posted:

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Laura...

I don't even know what to say.. I am just so sincerely sorry that this happened.. Everything will find a way to work itself out eventually. Right now, just may not have been the right time to get married.. Everything will be ok..

Love you girl.. xoxoxoxo
D's Girl Posted:

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Laura,
I am so sorry to hear that. I really hope everything works out for you both in the end. A wedding is a huge financial responsibility and at least you are both smart enough to know that it might not be the time for you to be able to do it.

What the most important thing right now is to take care of yourself and your son.

bride_to_be_2007 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this.....

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