Wedding is Off! Very Long!!
Okay I am home and ready to spill. As most of you are aware of the fighting and everything from the other day, PF (past fiance) agreed to get the apartment b/c he wanted to stay together and knew that moving in and proving he is mature enough to take care of is was one of the conditions of us staying together. We also discussed things, about the threating, no more of that, and things that bothered me and things like that but most importantly no more throwing in my face that he has to pay for everything and I don't pay for anything an how useless I am.
Well since he agreed which was only on thursday night, friday came along and instead of wanting to see me since we haven't seen each other in a week, he wanted to hang out with his friends, well I told him how messed up that is and to make a long story short he did come over b/c I started *****ing about the maturity thing again and to basically shut me up he gave in but the point that the first place he would want to be the day we made up wasn't here was screwed up.
Okay so since then we have gotten along, the whole 1 1/2. Welll today we went to the city to see the car show at the javitts center, it was going good for a while until he started *****ing about the money thing again which in then started to **** me off so I told him to drop it before it turns into a fight. Yeah right, he started with the threats again about if you don't give up all this stupid **** for the wedding then we aren't getting an apartment, or if you don't help with the apartment money then forget it. So I told him like always he agreed to get the apartment to shut me up and make up the other day but had know plans on sticking to it, like he always does.
Then the famous words, well if this isn't gonna work then give me my ring back. Now he knew I only had a few dollars on me so he said I owe him the money for my train ticket and the admission into the show and the taxi. Then he said I hope your few dollars gets you home on the train. He had our r/t tickets but was being spiteful and wouldn't give me mine. So I had to push the stroller, the baby, my pocket book, the diaper bag and the bag of stuff from the car show done track 19 by myself in penn station b/c he walked away, so we sat seperatly not even in the same car on the way home and I had called his mother to make sure she was babysitting tomorrow and she asked where dan was and I said I don't know, so of course she was like your in a fight again. She met us at the train station and he sat there and called me things and said to give him his ring back now and I refused b/c he owes me a couple thousand dollars on my cc.
Well he went in his mothers car and she took him to my house to get his car and he followed me to my door yelling at me to give him the ring, so I slammed the door in his face and he punched my car to get my car alarm to go off.
I had such a headache and this was making things worse so the baby fell asleep and I was going to take a nap and I hear his car, he came back with his mother in his car ringing my door bell calling my phone so I answered it and he said he has his checkbook, he will write a check for the amount he owes me and he wants his ring. We fought back and forth I told him I don't trust him, he will probaly bounce the check cause he would only lose $28 and then I would be out all the money, so then he threatened to call the cops so I said the number is 911 and hung up on him and shut off my phones. After ringing the doorbell a few more times he left.
His mother knows what a a55hole he is and usually takes my side, well I don't know what he said but she was completely on his side about this which isn't like her. We will see if she actually babysits tomorrow.
There is no going back now, he really just sealed the coffin. I just don't know what to do, I know I am so much better off but where do I go from here.
I am so sorry this is so long, but I feel better that I just got this whole story off my chest, even if I typed it and didn't speak.
Well since he agreed which was only on thursday night, friday came along and instead of wanting to see me since we haven't seen each other in a week, he wanted to hang out with his friends, well I told him how messed up that is and to make a long story short he did come over b/c I started *****ing about the maturity thing again and to basically shut me up he gave in but the point that the first place he would want to be the day we made up wasn't here was screwed up.
Okay so since then we have gotten along, the whole 1 1/2. Welll today we went to the city to see the car show at the javitts center, it was going good for a while until he started *****ing about the money thing again which in then started to **** me off so I told him to drop it before it turns into a fight. Yeah right, he started with the threats again about if you don't give up all this stupid **** for the wedding then we aren't getting an apartment, or if you don't help with the apartment money then forget it. So I told him like always he agreed to get the apartment to shut me up and make up the other day but had know plans on sticking to it, like he always does.
Then the famous words, well if this isn't gonna work then give me my ring back. Now he knew I only had a few dollars on me so he said I owe him the money for my train ticket and the admission into the show and the taxi. Then he said I hope your few dollars gets you home on the train. He had our r/t tickets but was being spiteful and wouldn't give me mine. So I had to push the stroller, the baby, my pocket book, the diaper bag and the bag of stuff from the car show done track 19 by myself in penn station b/c he walked away, so we sat seperatly not even in the same car on the way home and I had called his mother to make sure she was babysitting tomorrow and she asked where dan was and I said I don't know, so of course she was like your in a fight again. She met us at the train station and he sat there and called me things and said to give him his ring back now and I refused b/c he owes me a couple thousand dollars on my cc.
Well he went in his mothers car and she took him to my house to get his car and he followed me to my door yelling at me to give him the ring, so I slammed the door in his face and he punched my car to get my car alarm to go off.
I had such a headache and this was making things worse so the baby fell asleep and I was going to take a nap and I hear his car, he came back with his mother in his car ringing my door bell calling my phone so I answered it and he said he has his checkbook, he will write a check for the amount he owes me and he wants his ring. We fought back and forth I told him I don't trust him, he will probaly bounce the check cause he would only lose $28 and then I would be out all the money, so then he threatened to call the cops so I said the number is 911 and hung up on him and shut off my phones. After ringing the doorbell a few more times he left.
His mother knows what a a55hole he is and usually takes my side, well I don't know what he said but she was completely on his side about this which isn't like her. We will see if she actually babysits tomorrow.
There is no going back now, he really just sealed the coffin. I just don't know what to do, I know I am so much better off but where do I go from here.
I am so sorry this is so long, but I feel better that I just got this whole story off my chest, even if I typed it and didn't speak.
