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WEDDING SABOTAGE! More updates

carolinebr Posted:

WEDDING SABOTAGE! More updates

Need to vent.

FH has a sister who is in desperate need of rehab, at the very least. She is truly a BAD person. She is a danger to herself and to others & I seriously wish she would just move to Alaska & get eaten by a polar bear.

WHY you ask? B/c my reception hall called me last night in a panic asking what was going on. I said “um, what do you mean?” Well. My FSIL called the caterer & said “Bride is too upset to call you and tell you herself but the wedding is OFF. You can cancel it.”

She also called the sold out hotel for my guests posing as me & said cancel all the rooms, the wedding is off. She called my bridal salon and did the same for my dress & my BM dresses. I have been on the phone all day calling every vendor to see who else she got to. My father called a friend who owns a club & we have now hired security for my wedding. So much for my classy Hamptons wedding. This crazy b!tch is ruining everything!!!

She is doing all this to get back at us. FH had her arrested last week. Long story. No one was seriously hurt by her actions but it was bad enough that the police filed seven charges against her. I hope she goes to jail. I really do. She belongs there.

She is seriously troubled. The whole family has cut her off and wants nothing to do with her & she is lashing out. How DARE she try to cancel my wedding!!!!

Ok, I just needed to get that off my chest.

Updated post on page 2

UPDATE 3 - she also called the bridal shop & tried to cancel all the dresses. She said she was me. Luckily, the owner knows my voice & called her out on it! I had given her a heads up...
Tobewed07 Posted:

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OMG!! I am sooooo sorry that she is doing this to you! Thank God that you are able to get to all of your vendors and tell them what happened!!

WOW...I am sitting here with my jaw hanging down in disbelief!!
Christys0925 Posted:

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OMG That's horrible. I am so sorry you have to deal with this when it should be a wonderful experience!!!

imas98 Posted:

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Oh my God, that's terrible. You have enough stress planning a wedding & now you have to deal with this nonsense. So sorry.
AeroJenn Posted:

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OH MY GOD caroline! I cant believe she would do such a thing I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, but thank goodness your hall had the brains to call you to ask what was going on.

dianadrw Posted:

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OMG....that is insane! She sounds like she is in serious need of help. Good call on hiring security.

NY2Cincinnati Posted:

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OMG that's crazy! That's stress that you don't need to deal with and hopefully she will be taken care of.

RGV07 Posted:

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omgoodness, what a hurtful things to do, i am sorry that you going through this, and now the messed up part is you have to call all the vendors back up letting them know that the wedding is still on. what a bitoch!!!!excuse me for my harsh words, wow i cant beleive this psycho would go and do this, what a a$$ and she should be in jail for ruining ur wedding day .

NowAndForever2012 Posted:

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OMG.....She need to be B*tch Slapped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

happygirl07 Posted:

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That is the most horrible thinkg she can do.

I am so sorry that you're going through this.
mycrayon1 Posted:

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OMG Date Twin!!! I cna't believe she is doing this to you. Thank God there are contracts and to cancel things have to be in writing, and that they called you!!!

kris01 Posted:

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OMG!!! I am so sorry!!!
I would call ALL your vendors and set up 'passwords' with them. so if this happens again, they have to ask a specific question with a specific answer in order to change or talk about details!
thelastresort Posted:

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Posted by kris01

OMG!!! I am so sorry!!!
I would call ALL your vendors and set up 'passwords' with them. so if this happens again, they have to ask a specific question with a specific answer in order to change or talk about details!



I did the same thing. I sent all of my vendors a letter stating that should anything be cancelled either me or FH has to physically show up with a valid photo ID and the password to cancel. That is so despicable. I wish you all the best with that.
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Omg!!!!!!!! Sounds like something that happens in a soap or movie. Things like this shouldn't happen in real life! What a crazy woman!!!!!!!!!

Good Luck girly!
MnM52607 Posted:

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Oh My God!!! that is crazy. I hope everything works out.

DNicholes Posted:

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My mouth is wide open in shock............holy crap!! I would call every vendor and make up a code with each of them and make sure they ask for the code everytime you call to prevent this from happening again.

That is insane!!!

ETA: Ooops didn't read everyones responses....good idea on the password!!
MeNBobs Posted:

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Holy crap that gil is psycho. You couldn't make things like that up. I hope you were able to catch all your vendors on time.
Mikeysgirl Posted:

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OMG! I can't believe this! Thank goodness your hall called you before canceling anything. I hope you're able to get everything straightened out and I'm sorry this has happened to you! Good luck!!

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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that is horrible!! i am so sorry you have to go through all this!
Thank God the RH called you to confirm!


soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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OMG!!! I am so sorry that you are going through this!!! I hope the security will help. I am sure they will be very discreet about it.

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