Okay ladies, Im not one for venting.. But Im so upset I could just start crying at work right now. Last night FH and I got into a fight because his dad called and wanted to know how guests staying at the hotel are getting to the RH (unfortunately, they don't provide shuttle service) We aren't renting a bus for this because we don't know how many people are actually staying and really the hotel is RIGHT ACROSS the street from RH.. Like you can see it from both directions. We are having a bus shuttle people back and forth at the end of the wedding but they are on their own to get there... FH wants to add a bus or a limo now for this reason.. Im not even joking in any way when I say we just cant afford it ... I have already cut stuff out that I wanted and I feel like we just cant add this. Anyway, the fight was ridiculous and we havent really spoken since then, which I hate.. Am I being totally wrong here to think that guests need to find their own way to the wedding? A cab would be less than 5 dollar and they can even walk it! I have gotten myself to weddings in NJ and SI and nobody offered me anything! Am I being irrational?
Sorry this is so long, Im just really upset
coldasice217
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I'm sorry you're going through this! I do not feel that you should have to provide transportation, ESPECIALLY given the proximity of the hotel to the RH. That's just absurd.
Celeste617
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i'm so sorry you guys are fighting! i don't think you are being irrational. if your FFIL wants a limo tell him to pay for it.
thanks! Well FFIL asked how they would get there because his wife's (whom I really love) brother and nnephews (all over 21) are staying there. But is it rude that I would expect them to take a cab over to the RH? I mean Im not trying to be mean but I have more important things to stress about than to worry about how people will get to my wedding. I never bother couples with this stuff when I am invited to a wedding. I just figure it out!
I don't think you are being rude in any way, shape, or form. Why should the burden be on you?? You are being good enough to shuttle these people back after the wedding which is more than I would even do. FFIL wants this, he needs to cover the cost.
Jsquared279
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You are not being irrational at all. You are absolutely right. Hold your ground. I think it would be an unnecessary expense, but that is just my opinion. And don't worry I am sure you and FH will make up tonight!!
